Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · June 21, 2025 · Entertainment

Unveiling ABBA: Behind the Harmony Lies a Dark Secret

There was a secret darkness behind ABBA's faultless harmonies and Eurovision smiles (Frida, second from right, pictured with her bandmates)

The Secrets Behind ABBA's Unstoppable Rise to Fame Revealed: A Story of Tragedy, Heartache, and Melancholy

In a shocking exposé, the true story behind ABBA's phenomenal success has been unearthed, revealing a tale of darkness, tragedy, and unbridled passion. As rumors swirl about a potential Mamma Mia 3, fans are reminded that the band's members have lived through unimaginable hardships, which ultimately fueled their creative output.

One such secret is the shocking revelation that ABBA's lead singer, Frida Lyngstad, was born to a Norwegian mother and a German Nazi father. Yes, you read that right – Frida Lyngstad, one of the most iconic vocalists in pop history, has a connection to Hitler's twisted plans for world domination.

Breathless rumors swirl that a Mamma Mia 3 is in the works. Pictured: Meryl Streep (front left) with Amanda Seyfried (front right) in Mamma Mia!

In 1944, Alfred Haase, Frida's father, told her mother, Synni Lyngstad, about his wife and newborn daughter back in Germany. But by then, Synni was already pregnant with Frida, and the couple's romance had become a target for abuse in their Norwegian community. The label "horizontal collaborators" was hurled at Synni, who was forced to clean buildings formerly occupied by German soldiers.

As Frida grew up, she faced harassment and ridicule due to her father's Nazi past. Her grandmother, Anni Lyngstad, shouldered the burden of raising a young Frida, working multiple jobs to make ends meet while facing the cruel realities of living with a "Nazi spawn." Synni tragically passed away in 1947, leaving Frida and her grandmother to face an uncertain future.

The darkness didn't stop there. When Frida's father, Alfred Haase, suddenly reappeared in her life in 1977, it was a bittersweet reunion. Frida had assumed he was dead, but the revelation only added to her emotional turmoil.

Teenage Synni (right) was smitten by the dashing Nazi soldier Alfred Haase (left)

But ABBA's story doesn't end with tragedy alone. The band's members have also experienced immense joy and success, including the global phenomenon that is Voyage, their virtual extravaganza in London. And now, as whispers of a potential Mamma Mia 3 spread like wildfire, fans are eager to see what the future holds for this beloved band.

In an exclusive excerpt from The Story of ABBA: Melancholy Undercover, music journalist Jan Gradvall delves into the heartache and hardship that shaped Frida's life. As she reflects on her past, Frida opens up about the pain of losing loved ones, including her daughter Ann Lise-Lotte in a car crash in 1998 and her husband Prince Heinrich Ruzzo Reuss von Plauen just a year later.

Frida's latest loss was that of her beloved grandson Jonathan, who passed away from cancer in 2023. "It took many years of incomprehensible grief," she says, looking back on the journey that has shaped her life and music.

Women who had been in romantic relationships with German soldiers were labelled 'horizontal collaborators,' and many had their hair forcibly shaved in public

As we await the next chapter in ABBA's storied history, fans are reminded that their iconic songs and unforgettable performances were born from a life marked by both darkness and light. Will Mamma Mia 3 bring us more of the same? Only time will tell. For now, we can't help but be drawn to the incredible story behind one of the most beloved bands in pop history.

Jan Gradvall spent a decade researching the band and interviewing each of the members

It was only much later, when ABBA was one of the biggest bands in the world, that Frida's father got in touch

'It still mostly felt strange to me,' says Frida (right) of meeting with her estranged father (center). Her second husband and bandmate Benny Andersson is seen left

Frida, pictured left with her third husband, Prince Heinrich Ruzzo Reuss von Plauen, right, who died suddenly from cancer aged just 49

Frida’s daughter Ann Lise-Lotte (center), died in a car crash in the US in 1998, shortly before her 31st birthday