Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 14, 2025 · Entertainment

Unlocking Harry and Meghan's Love Language: A Body Language Breakdown

Prince Harry's wedding to Meghan Markle on May 19, 2018, was watched by 1.9billion people worldwide

The Royal Scandal: What Body Language Experts Reveal About Prince Harry's Marriage

Prince Harry, 41, has been a fixture in the public eye for decades, but it wasn't until he married Meghan Markle that we truly saw him open up and bare his soul. The wedding of the century was watched by an astonishing 1.9 billion people worldwide, and experts are still analyzing every detail to unravel the mysteries behind their relationship.

Judi James, a renowned body language expert, revisited the Sussexes' nuptials with fresh eyes and revealed some astonishing insights into Harry's behavior. "Harry's role was to be the caring, dashing prince, showing Meghan the ropes and introducing her to the challenges of royal life," she explained in an exclusive interview with The Scholarly Note.

Body language expert Judi James said: 'When Harry spoke to Prince William, his best man, the words were delivered with signals of anxiety'

But beneath the surface of their charming smiles and loving gestures, Judi detected a deep-seated anxiety that had been simmering since the early days of their relationship. "Harry was intensely nervous-looking groom right up to the moment when Meghan arrived and locked eyes with him," she observed. "His expression fluctuated between solemn and hollow-eyed gaze of reflection, suggesting a state of tearfulness."

As Judi pored over the wedding footage, she noticed that Harry's behavior changed dramatically once Meghan appeared on the scene. "When he saw her smile, he adopted a look that could be described as protective and besotted," she noted. "It was as if all his anxiety melted away in an instant, replaced by a deep sense of devotion."

But what about Meghan? Judi described her solo walk down the aisle as an "act of total confidence." "She didn't falter or show any signs of nervousness; it was as if she knew exactly what to expect," she said. And when she reached Harry's side, their body language became almost synchronized. "Meghan glanced coyly at Harry, who gazed back at her with a look of protectiveness and adoration," Judi observed.

Judi said: 'When Meghan first arrived and Harry rose to his feet, he was seen rocking slightly from side to side and sucking his lower lip in'

This dynamic has continued throughout their marriage, with Meghan often taking center stage and Harry assuming a more subservient role. Judi pointed out that in the UK, Harry was the protector and host to his wife, introducing her to new people and situations. "But in the US, it's been a different story," she noted. "Meghan has become the dominant force, hosting events and taking charge."

This reversal of roles has led some experts to speculate about the power dynamics at play in their relationship. "It's almost as if Harry has swapped his life as a royal 'spare' for a life as a Montecito 'spare'," Judi mused. "He looks more like Meghan's security detail than her high-status husband."

Former Buckingham Palace butler Grant Harrold also weighed in on the subject, claiming that everything changed after Harry met Meghan in July 2016. "It could be that Harry had his own awakening and suddenly decided he didn't like the organization," Harrold suggested. "But the problem is that Meghan was with him when it happened."

Judi described Meghan’s solo walk half the way up the aisle as 'an act of total confidence'

As we delve deeper into the world of royal body language, it's clear that there's more to Harry and Meghan's relationship than meets the eye. Judi James has been analyzing their behavior for years, and her observations offer a fascinating glimpse into the complexities of their partnership.

So what does the future hold for this power couple? Only time will tell, but one thing is certain: we'll be watching with bated breath as they navigate the ups and downs of royal life together.

The Evolution of Prince Harry's Body Language

'She didn’t falter and there were no non-verbal leakage signals or even micro-gestures to suggest she was in any way nervous,' Judi said of Meghan

As we examine the body language of Prince Harry over the years, it's striking to see how his behavior has shifted in response to Meghan's influence. In the early days of their relationship, Judi observed that Harry was more assertive and dominant, correcting Meghan on the balcony with a stern expression.

But since moving to Montecito, Harry's demeanor has become more relaxed and compliant. "When Meghan dominates at events, he looks happily so, hopping about and allowing himself to be patted or steered into place," Judi noted. There's even a hint of a maternal link in the way he defers to Meghan, taking on a more subservient role.

This is not to say that Harry has lost his confidence entirely. Judi believes that his emotional confidence may have grown and matured with the birth of his children and the support of his wife. "But at times, his body language can reveal a man being lovingly guided, steered and reassured by his talented and confident wife," she observed.

The body language expert told the Daily Mail: 'It was Harry’s role to be the caring, dashing prince here, showing Meghan the ropes and inducting her into the challenges of royal life'

As we explore the intricacies of royal relationships, it's clear that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to partnership. Whether they're navigating the complexities of royal protocol or simply trying to enjoy each other's company, Harry and Meghan are a fascinating case study in how two individuals can come together and create something truly unique.

The Rise of Meghan Markle: From Actress to Royal Power Player

Meghan Markle's impact on Prince Harry cannot be overstated. As an actress and social activist, she brought a level of confidence and poise that has been infectious. But what's behind her success? Judi believes it's all about body language.

Harry lifts Meghan's veil during their wedding service, conducted by the Archbishop of Canterbury Justin Welby

"When Meghan arrived at the royal wedding, she was like a breath of fresh air," Judi said. "She didn't falter or show any signs of nervousness; it was as if she knew exactly what to expect." And from that moment on, her confidence has only grown.

As an actress, Meghan was used to being in the spotlight, but joining the royal family brought a whole new level of scrutiny and expectation. "She had to adapt to a new way of life, learning about protocol and etiquette," Judi observed. But Meghan's natural charm and charisma have made it easy for her to navigate these challenges.

In recent events, including the Time100 New York summit, Meghan has taken center stage, leaving Harry to assume a more supporting role. "This was a body language moment that defined how Harry had swapped life as a royal 'spare' for a life as a Montecito 'spare'," Judi noted.

Meghan and Harry's wedding at St George's Chapel was described as the 'royal social event of the year' for 2018

But what does this mean for their relationship? Does it indicate a shift in power dynamics or simply a recognition of Meghan's natural talents and abilities? Only time will tell, but one thing is certain: we'll be watching with great interest as this royal couple continues to evolve and grow together.

Judi wrote: 'Meghan glanced down coyly as Harry gazed at her and she giggled to suggest that air of vulnerability'

'The body language evolution of this change has seen Harry recently looking like the

Harry and Meghan exit St George's Chapel in Windsor Castle after their royal wedding ceremony with their family behind them

'Meghan continued the theme of coyness with some tentative waves from the carriage,' wrote Judi

In recent events, including 'royal style' engagements, it is often Meghan who leads Harry, who tends to hang back and display more signs of anxiety, according to the body language expert

Judi said: 'Harry had a complete change of role, status and lifestyle once he moved to the US, and many of his behaviours and body language with Meghan made a complete and powerful turnabout'