Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · July 23, 2025 · Entertainment

Uncovering Shadows: Billy Joel's Search for His Absent Father

Billy Joel 's biggest revelation after filming his new documentary was uncovering the truth that his absentee father Howard Joel was a driving force behind his music and life; (seen in 2024)

The Shocking Truth About Billy Joel's Turbulent Childhood Revealed in New Documentary

Get ready for a wild ride as Grammy-winning superstar Billy Joel spills all about his tumultuous past in his brand-new documentary, "Billy Joel: And So It Goes" on HBO! In the revealing film, the 76-year-old icon opens up about the rocky road that has led him to where he is today - and it's more drama-filled than you ever could have imagined.

For starters, Billy reveals that his absentee father, Howard Joel (born Helmut), was a major force behind his music and life. Yep, you read that right - the piano virtuoso who once knocked out an 8-year-old Billy for making a mistake on the keys! But that's not all; Howard's abandonment of the family to chase his own dreams in Europe left deep scars that would shape Billy's entire life.

In the documentary, Joel recalls Howard ¿knocking me out¿ at age 8 over a piano mistake before eventually leaving the family for Europe, and says that even after they reconnected, searching for his father remained a driving force in his life; (Joel with father Howard Joel in 1986)

In the documentary, Billy confesses that searching for his father was a driving force throughout his life. "I said, 'You know what? I think that's true. I was looking for my dad,'" he tells People in a recent interview. And who can blame him? Growing up without a close relationship with your father is any kid's worst nightmare!

So, just how did Billy's father fit into his life? Well, it turns out that Howard Joel came from a wealthy Jewish family in Nuremberg, Germany. He was educated in Switzerland and went on to become a successful businessman - all while harboring a secret passion for classical music (who knew?!

But here's the kicker: Howard divorced Billy's mother Rosalind and jetted off to Vienna, Austria, leaving his children behind. The years apart left an indelible mark on Billy, who would go on to pour his emotions into his music.

'[Co-director] Susan Lacy pointed out that a lot of the things I was searching for were my father in my life, and I recognized that in the documentary,' Joel said;; (seen in 1986)

In fact, Billy's 1977 hit "Vienna" was inspired by his complicated relationship with his father! Who knew that one of the most iconic songs in rock history had such a personal connection?

Now, we know what you're thinking: What about Howard Joel's other son, Alexander? Ah, yes - Alex has also made a name for himself as a pianist and conductor. Talk about sibling rivalry!

As Billy navigates his diagnosis with normal pressure hydrocephalus (NPH), he remains optimistic despite the challenges ahead. "I feel fine," he told Bill Maher on Club Random podcast. "My balance sucks... It's like being a boat." The condition has affected his hearing, vision, and balance, but Billy is determined to stay positive.

'One thing I remember, I was supposed to be playing the 'Moonlight Sonata,'

Throughout his life, Billy has been open about his struggles with addiction, mental health, and substance abuse. His honesty has inspired countless fans around the world, proving that even in the darkest of times, there's always hope for a brighter future.

**Catch the full documentary "Billy Joel: And So It Goes" on HBO to get an inside look at Billy's life - or read all about it on TheScholarlyNote.com!

In May, music icon Joel, 76, revealed his diagnosis and announced the cancellation of his upcoming concerts, following recent onstage struggles - Joel seen performing in February 2025