Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · July 29, 2025 · Entertainment

The Unseen Side of Gwyneth Paltrow: 'Vagina Ryder' and Hollywood Feuds

Gwyneth Paltrow and fellow actress Winona Ryder were once close friends, even sharing an apartment together in the late 1990s

Gwyneth Paltrow's Sinister Side: The Actress's Secret Life of Mean Girl Behavior and Ruthless Ambition

In a shocking new biography, Gwyneth Paltrow is exposed as a complex and multifaceted figure, far removed from her current persona as a wellness guru and self-proclaimed "conscious consumer." According to journalist Amy Odell's explosive book, Gwyneth: The Biography, the 52-year-old actress was once known for her cruel behavior, mean-spirited nicknames, and ruthless ambition.

From mocking her classmates at an elite prep school in New York to bullying a former co-star on the set of A Perfect Murder, Paltrow's early years were marked by a disturbing lack of empathy and kindness. It seems that beneath her polished exterior lies a calculating and manipulative individual who will stop at nothing to get ahead.

A new unauthorized biography of the actress revisits Paltrow's privileged upbringing, ruthless rise to fame, and her petty grudges with other celebrities

The book reveals that Paltrow was particularly vicious in her treatment of fellow actress Winona Ryder, with whom she had once been close friends. However, after suspecting Ryder of fabricating stories for attention, Paltrow turned on her former friend with a vengeance. The actress even went so far as to give Ryder the savage nickname "Vagina Ryder," according to Odell.

Paltrow's disdain for others was not limited to Ryder alone. She also harbored a deep-seated dislike for co-star Minnie Driver, whom she deemed to possess an "air of faux British aristocracy." The actress allegedly rolled her eyes and mimed vomiting when Driver wasn't looking during a photo shoot in Los Angeles.

But Paltrow's most surprising revelation comes from her own privileged upbringing. As the daughter of director Bruce Paltrow and screen legend Blythe Danner, Gwyneth was born into Hollywood royalty. However, this privilege came at a cost: she was known to be "polarizing" and sometimes cruel at elite prep school Spence in New York.

The book provides behind-the-scene details into one of Hollywood's original 'nepo' babies

Former classmates described Paltrow as "remarkably adept at reading people" and capable of delivering devastating comebacks when mocked or challenged. One former pupil even recalled Paltrow fat-shaming a classmate with an unsubtle comment about her appearance.

Paltrow's "supernatural confidence" was fueled by her privileged upbringing, according to Odell. Her godfather Steven Spielberg played a significant role in launching her career, and her father treated her like a "female Jesus Christ," spoiling her rotten and indulging her every whim.

But Paltrow's life of luxury came with its own set of problems. She was known to be reckless and irresponsible, staying out late partying and missing school without consequence. When the school called to check on her whereabouts, Paltrow brazenly pretended to be her mother before being caught out.

Paltrow had a habit of burning through friends on her way to the top, including Winona Ryder and her then-boyfriend Matt Damon, according to the book

This pattern of behavior continued into adulthood, with Paltrow dropping out of college after a year to pursue acting full-time. It was a decision that would set her on a path to fame and wealth, but also cemented her reputation as a self-centered and entitled individual.

The biography is not without its controversy, however. Odell reveals that people who have worked with Paltrow are "terrified" of speaking out about her, fearing retribution or damage to their careers. One former employee even described the Goop founder's staff as being more secretive than those of Anna Wintour, subject of Odell's previous book.

In a shocking admission, Paltrow herself has acknowledged that she can be "mean," capable of "icing out" people and harboring revenge. It seems that beneath her carefully curated image lies a complex and sometimes sinister individual, driven by a desire for power and recognition above all else.

The actress dated Damon's close friend Ben Affleck, making the two couples a Hollywood power foursome at the time

As theScholarlyNote.com reports, Paltrow's response to these allegations has not been forthcoming. But one thing is certain: Gwyneth Paltrow's secret life of mean girl behavior and ruthless ambition will never be seen in quite the same light again.

Paltrow had also harbored disdain towards actress Minnie Driver due to her 'fake air of British aristocracy', the book claims

Damon began dating Ryder after splitting with Driver, his co-star and love interest in 1997 film Good Will Hunting

The biography also revisits Paltrow's discomfort while filming 1998 crime thriller A Perfect Murder opposite co-star Michael Douglas, who was cast as her husband despite being almost 30 years her senior

Paltrow, then 25, was reportedly uneasy with their romantic scenes, finding the experience 'creepy'

Paltrow had a privileged upbringing having been born into 'Hollywood royalty' as the daughter of actress Blythe Danner and late director Bruce Paltrow; pictured in 1997

Apple Martin, 21, Paltrow's daughter with Coldplay lead singer Chris Martin, has had a similar life of privilege and wealth