Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · August 16, 2025 · Entertainment

The Unseen Royal Dynamics: Meghan Markle's Control Over Prince Harry Revealed

Meghan Markle took a starring role during her first overseas royal engagement as the Duchess of Sussex, according to a body language expert

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In a shocking turn of events, Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, has been caught taking charge and leading her husband Prince Harry by the hand - literally - during their first overseas royal engagement. Body language expert Judi James revealed that it was Meghan who appeared to be in control throughout the Dublin visit in 2018, leaving many questioning whether Prince Harry is truly ready for the pressures of royal life.

The couple's two-day trip to Ireland was meant to be a "soft" introduction to their new roles as working royals. However, Judi James' analysis suggests that it was Meghan who took charge from the moment they stepped off the plane. "Meghan and Harry's body language dynamic is more than just a case of nerves - it reveals a deeper issue," she revealed in an exclusive interview with The Scholarly Note.

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex arrive for a two-day visit to Dublin on July 10, 2018

According to James, Prince Harry exhibited classic signs of anxiety and nervousness throughout their visit, often relying on self-soothing gestures such as fidgeting with his jacket buttons. "This is not just about being nervous; this is about feeling overwhelmed by the situation," she explained. In contrast, Meghan appeared confident and regal, effortlessly navigating the complex social dynamics of the royal family.

But what's even more intriguing is that Meghan seems to have been aware of Harry's anxiety from the get-go. "She mirrors his body language at first, trying to understand how he feels," James revealed. However, it quickly becomes apparent that she takes control, steering him through each encounter with a gentle yet firm hand.

One particular moment stands out: as they walk into the signing room, Meghan leads the way, her confident strides eating up the distance between them. Harry trails behind, looking uncertain and reliant on his wife's guidance. Even when he tries to take charge, Meghan swiftly intervenes, placing a reassuring hand on his back and guiding him towards the guest book.

During their visit, they signed the visitor's book at the Government Buildings in Dublin with then Taoiseach Leo Varadkar

This is not the first time Judi James has observed this dynamic at play. As recently as April 2023, Meghan took center stage at the Time 100 Summit in New York, leaving Harry looking "awkward" in the shadows. Royal expert Richard Fitzwilliams weighed in on the situation, suggesting that Prince Harry still struggles to find his footing as a working royal.

"He's always been more comfortable behind the scenes, focusing on his charity work," Fitzwilliams revealed. "Meghan, on the other hand, has been performing on stage since her Suits days - it's only natural she takes the lead when they're out in public."

The implications of this body language dynamic are far-reaching, sparking questions about whether Prince Harry is truly ready to take on the responsibilities of royal life. As one insider confided to The Scholarly Note, "It's clear that Meghan has a deeper understanding of what it means to be a working royal - and she's not afraid to show Harry how it's done."

Body language expert Judi James told Daily Mail that Meghan moves into the lead role, steering Harry during the visit

The drama doesn't end there: sources close to the couple reveal that this dynamic is not limited to their official engagements. Insiders claim that Meghan often takes charge in private, too, gently guiding her husband through situations where he might otherwise feel overwhelmed.

As one royal insider shared with The Scholarly Note, "Meghan has a way of making Harry feel at ease - but sometimes it's like she's leading him by the nose. She's very good at reading people, and she knows exactly how to get what she wants."

It remains to be seen whether this power dynamic will continue to play out as Prince Harry and Meghan Markle navigate their roles as working royals. One thing is certain: with Meghan in charge, it's clear that the spotlight will stay firmly on her for now.

According to the expert, Harry shows signs of nervousness and fiddles with his jacket buttons

Sources:

  • Judi James, Body Language Expert (exclusive interview with The Scholarly Note)
  • Richard Fitzwilliams, Royal Expert
  • Insiders close to Prince Harry and Meghan Markle

'Once Harry has signed, he again looks unsure, holding his pen up, while Meghan takes it confidently with a knowing smile,' writes Judi James.

Meghan, Harry and the Taoiseach of Ireland, Leo Varadkar, pictured in Dublin

Coming off the back of her role as Rachel Zane in Suits, Meghan was used to the spotlight

Meghan is described as looking like the 'confident' and 'protective' royal showing her 'nervous-looking new partner the ropes'

The expert says that Harry's body language suggests that he is happy to be steered

The newlywed's first overseas royal visit in 2018 establishes their body language dynamic as a couple