Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 30, 2025 · Entertainment

The Unraveling Throuple: Selena, Nicola & Brooklyn’s Friendship Mystery

They were once so close that they referred to themselves as a 'throuple'. So tongues were sent wagging over their absence, particularly given Selena didn't attend their vow renewal

Selena Gomez's Wedding Sparks Drama: Was Nicola Peltz and Brooklyn Beckham's No-Show a Betrayal?

The highly anticipated wedding of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco was the talk of the town this weekend, with an A-list guest list that included Taylor Swift, Paris Hilton, and Ed Sheeran. However, two of Selena's closest friends were noticeably absent from the ceremony: Nicola Peltz and Brooklyn Beckham.

Rumors have been swirling about the possible reason behind their no-show, with some speculating that they might be estranged from Selena due to her blossoming romance with Benny Blanco. The drama has left fans wondering if the once-inseparable trio - which included Selena, Nicola, and Brooklyn - has officially imploded.

Adding more confusion was a congratulation from Gordon Ramsay, close friend of the David and Victoria Beckham - whom are notably estranged from Brooklyn and Nicola

The last time these three were seen together was nearly a year ago, when Nicola paid tribute to her late grandmother on Instagram. However, since then, their social media interactions have been eerily silent. Not a single like or comment from Selena on Nicola's recent posts, nor any love from Nicola and Brooklyn for Selena's album launch last March.

Sources close to the situation claim that Nicola was in "strict preparation" for an upcoming role and couldn't attend the wedding. However, this explanation raises more questions than answers: why didn't they make it a priority? And what about their vow renewal ceremony just last month - did Selena really not want to be there?

The throuple's bond began to fray when Selena started dating Benny in 2022. Insiders revealed that the singer had grown tired of Nicola's "diva" behavior, which might have contributed to her absence at Brooklyn and Nicola's vow renewal ceremony.

Gordon was also not at the ceremony, but met Selena when he appeared on her cooking show Selena + Chef, which launched in 2020

It seems like a clear sign of trouble in paradise: once inseparable friends now MIA from each other's lives. Fans can't help but wonder if the three-time "throuple" has officially broken up.

But here's the thing: not everything is as it seems on social media. Insiders claim that Selena, Nicola, and Brooklyn are still close - their public personas just don't reflect their real-life friendships.

According to a source familiar with the situation, "They are still friends. When it comes to their vow renewal ceremony, [Selena] can celebrate them privately. She feels she doesn't have to legitimize her friendships with anyone through an online post or comment."

An insider told Daily Mail: 'Nicola is in strict preparation for a new role, and was unavailable. She and Brooklyn wish Selena and Benny all the best'

This explanation might sound convincing, but one thing is clear: the once-inseparable trio has definitely gone through a rough patch.

The drama doesn't stop there - Gordon Ramsay's congratulatory message on social media only added fuel to the fire. Was it a genuine expression of love and support for Selena and Benny, or just a way to keep up appearances?

As fans await more information about what went down behind closed doors, one thing is certain: this wedding will be remembered as a turning point in the history of the once-unbreakable friendship between Selena, Nicola, and Brooklyn.

Selena has formed an incredibly close bond with the couple over the years, as they cemented their closeness by joking they were in 'throuple' (pictured in 2023)

Timeline of the Throuple's Downfall

  • 2022: Selena starts dating Benny Blanco, marking the beginning of the end for her close friendships with Nicola and Brooklyn.
  • December 2023: Selena posts a photo dump that includes a rare appearance by Nicola - their last joint social media post together.
  • March 2024: Nicola's most recent post featuring Selena was taken at Benny's birthday party, indicating a clear change in their relationship dynamics.

It's time to face the music: has the "throuple" finally come to an end?

In January 2023, the trio went on vacation together to Los Cabos, Mexico, as they shared photos and videos from their luxury yacht

Selena's last post of Nicola (pictured) was shared to her Instagram in December 2023