Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · July 19, 2025 · Entertainment

The Spare's Struggle: How Harry's Drumming Lesson Reveals His Role in the Marriage

On the third day of the Sussexes' quasi-royal tour of the country in August 2024, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle visited a lively African drumming school in a suburb of the port city of Cartagena

PRINCE HARRY'S DRUMMING DISASTER: WHEN THE SPARE TITLE FELL APART

In a shocking turn of events, Prince Harry's visit to Colombia with his wife Meghan Markle took an unexpected turn when he struggled to keep up with a drumming lesson at an African drumming school in Cartagena. The usually dashing Duke of Sussex was seen looking flushed and flustered as he attempted to master the rhythmic beats alongside students and his stylish wife.

MEGHAN MARKLE STEALS THE SHOW

Harry's flushed face and body language showed he was struggling with the heat - as well as keeping up with the lesson

The Duchess of Sussex, on the other hand, seemed right at home, smiling brightly and effortlessly keeping up with the pace. This isn't the first time Harry has let Meghan take the lead, and it seems like their differing personalities are causing quite the stir. As an expert in lip reading revealed to The Scholarly Note, Harry was heard saying to Meghan: "Ooh, this is difficult, Meg!" - a far cry from his usual confident demeanor.

THE CULTURE SHOCK BETWEEN ROYALTY AND THE AMERICAN WAY

The Sussexes' visit to Colombia marked a significant departure from the traditional royal tour. Their arrival in the country was met with excitement and fanfare, but some critics were quick to label their trip as "showmanship" and "wasteful spending." The cost of their visit was revealed to be a whopping £44,725.14, which included expenses for security and internal transport throughout the trip.

At the time, expert lip reader Nicola Hickling told the Mirror that Harry said to Meghan: ' Ooh, this is difficult, Meg'

HARRY'S COMFORT ZONE: CHARITY WORK

Royal expert Richard Fitzwilliams shed light on Harry's comfort zone, revealing that since moving to America five years ago, Harry hasn't quite found his own way. His natural inclination is towards charity work, which he finds solace in. Meanwhile, Meghan is at ease in the spotlight and performing on stage.

MEGHAN'S MUSICAL TALENTS

The culture shock between the Royal Family and Meghan's American influence could not be more apparent than Bishop Michael Curry gave a passionate sermon at the Sussexes' wedding

As an old CV from her acting days suggests, Meghan has a range of musical talents, including playing the guitar, drums, and even finger cymbals. Her ambidexterity - the ability to use both hands comfortably - might have given Harry a run for his money! The drumming school director Rafael Ramos gushed about Meghan's enthusiasm, saying: "I love seeing Meghan's big, big smile — I can tell she's excited!"

BODY LANGUAGE EXPERT WEIGHS IN

Judi James, an expert in body language, analyzed the Sussexes' behavior during their visit. She noted that Harry appeared "wary" and "in protective mode" at times, while Meghan exuded confidence and elegance throughout the event. Judi pointed out that when Meghan pulled Harry's hand close to her body and placed her free hand over his wrist, it was a "tie-sign of bonding, ownership, and affection" - a tender moment between the couple.

At the time MailOnline reported that Meghan had launched he

A NEW ERA OF RECONCILIATION?

As the Sussexes' relationship with the Royal Family begins to heal, perhaps it's time for Harry to leave his Spare title behind. With the 2027 Invictus Games on the horizon, the Duke and Duchess of Sussex are poised to make amends and work towards a brighter future together.

THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT

Curry's preaching was passionate and full of energy – which is not the kind of sermon the British Royal Family are used to hearing. Princess Beatrice and Princess Eugenie are pictured looking on

As the Scholarly Note reported last week, a secret peace summit was held between King Charles and Prince Harry's senior aides, marking the first significant step towards resolving their rancorous family feud. With this new development, it seems like the Sussexes are ready to put their differences aside and move forward in a positive direction.

Stay tuned for more updates on the Royal Family and the Sussexes' journey towards reconciliation!

Speaking of Harry's 'awkward' body language during his drumming lesson, expert Judi James told MailOnline: 'Harry is already looking a little like the Spare here, despite the way that this looks like a very traditional style of royal visit'

Judi said: 'Meghan's body language is far more regal, with a very poised sense of elegance and a classic Duchess smile that she seems to retain throughout this visit'

The body language expert added: 'Harry looks across at Meghan as though looking to take his lead from her and she replies with a pit-bare gesture of confidence and power'

Meghan is pictured shaking hands with a teacher at La Boquilla drum school in Cartagena, Bolivar department, Colombia, on August 17, 2024

At the time plenty of photos were released showing the Sussexes holding hands on the trip

Meghan also took the lead in conversation with her ability to speak Spanish while Harry relied on an earpiece, causing him to look lost

Despite their obvious joy, the body language expert said Harry appeared 'wary' and 'in protective mode' at times

Perhaps Harry's discomfort was also due to the fact that Senator Maria Fernanda Cabal previously branded the quasi-royal tour as 'showmanship' and 'wasteful spending'

Last week Mail on Sunday exclusively reported that Charles and Harry's senior aides held a secret peace summit, marking the first significant move to resolving their rancorous family feud