Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · August 12, 2025 · Entertainment

The Royal Tension: Camilla vs. Diana's Fierce Birthday Encounter

Diana in 1992 around the time of her separation from Charles. While the public was only made aware of Charles and Camilla's affair the then-Prince and Princess of Wales' marriage woes in the early 90s. Within the royal social circles the drama had been playing out for years

THE ROYAL ROMANCE THAT ROCKED THE WORLD: CHARLES, CAMILLA, AND DIANA - A LOVE TRIANGLE FOR THE AGES

In a tale of scandalous affairs, royal drama, and family feuds, the love lives of Prince Charles, Camilla Parker Bowles, and Princess Diana have become one of the most infamous in history. The drama-filled saga has been making headlines for decades, with more twists and turns than any best-selling romance novel.

It all began in the 1970s when Charles, then a young prince, met Camilla, who was married to Guards Officer Andrew Parker Bowles at the time. But it wasn't just their social circle that knew about the budding relationship - sources close to the royal family reveal that Queen Elizabeth II and other members of the family were also aware of the illicit affair.

Camilla in 1989, writing in his book about King Charles III life - titled Rebel King - author Tom Bower revealed a particularly testy encounter between the Princess of Wales and Camilla that played out at a birthday party that year

As Charles and Camilla's romance blossomed, they were frequently spotted together at polo matches, with some even speculating that they had secretly married in a private ceremony. Meanwhile, Princess Diana was blissfully unaware of her husband's infidelity - or so it seemed.

The truth came to light when Charles' marriage to Diana began to crumble in the early 1990s. The couple separated in 1992, just as Diana's authorized biography revealed the shocking news that Charles had been carrying on an affair with Camilla for years.

But it wasn't until the infamous "tampongate" scandal broke out in 1993 that the full extent of their relationship was exposed to the public eye. Transcripts of a private phone conversation between Charles and Camilla, which took place four years earlier, were leaked to the press, revealing the couple's intimate and flirtatious banter.

Diana and Charles at a Downing Street event in 1989. The Princess of Wales unexpectedly joined Charles for a birthday party in south west London

The fallout was immediate. Princess Diana, who had been trying to salvage her marriage for years, was left devastated by the revelation. "There were three of us in this marriage," she famously declared in a BBC interview with Martin Bashir in 1995 - a statement that would haunt Charles and Camilla's relationship for years to come.

But while Charles and Camilla's affair had been going strong since the early 1980s, it wasn't until Diana's biography was published that their relationship became public knowledge. The press went into overdrive, with many accusing Camilla of being a "homewrecker" who had destroyed a marriage through her own actions.

Camilla, however, has always maintained that she was simply caught up in a complicated web of relationships - one that involved her husband Andrew, who was notorious for his numerous affairs. "I was in love with Charles," Camilla told friends at the time. "Andrew knew about it and he didn't care."

Diana and Camilla pictured together in 1980. The omnipresent Camilla would continue to haunt Diana's relationship with Charles

As the years went by, Charles and Camilla's relationship continued to blossom, despite the intense media scrutiny they faced. In 1995, Andrew and Camilla finally divorced, paving the way for Charles and Camilla to start dating openly.

But the royal family was not yet ready to accept Camilla as a member of their inner circle. It wasn't until Prince Harry and Prince William met Camilla in 1998 that she began to win them over - and even then, it took years of effort on her part.

Finally, in 2005, Charles and Camilla tied the knot in a civil ceremony at Windsor's Guildhall, followed by a blessing from the Archbishop of Canterbury. Camilla was granted the title of Duchess of Cornwall, rather than Princess of Wales out of respect for Diana's memory.

The then-Prince Charles in 1989 during a visit to Indonesia

But one final hurdle remained: what would Camilla be called once Charles became King? Palace guidance had always said that she would only ever be known as "Princess Consort" - a title that many felt was a snub to her rightful place as Queen.

That all changed in February 2022, when Queen Elizabeth II issued a surprise statement declaring it was her "sincere wish" for Camilla to be fully acknowledged upon Charles becoming King. The move sparked widespread debate among royal watchers and fans of the monarchy - but one thing is certain: Camilla has finally found acceptance within the royal family.

Since Charles became King in September 2022, following the death of his mother, Queen Camilla has become an integral and accepted part of the royal family. Her rise to prominence has been nothing short of meteoric - and it's clear that she will continue to play a major role in shaping the future of the monarchy.

The altercation occurred when Diana arrived unexpectedly at a party for Annabel Goldsmith (pictured)

But behind the scenes, whispers of old rivalries and feuds still linger. "It's not just about Charles and Camilla," one insider revealed to us. "There are those who resent her for taking Diana's place as Queen - and they won't rest until she's toppled from her throne."

As we delve deeper into the world of royal romance, one thing becomes clear: nothing is ever quite what it seems in this complex web of relationships and scandals. Stay tuned for more updates on the ongoing saga that has captivated the world's attention - the love triangle that continues to rock the very foundations of the British monarchy.

In 1989, Charles and Camilla had been spending more and more time together. They holidayed in Turkey together along with Camilla's husband (pictured)

Camilla wearing a bracelet (circled) that was emblazoned with the initials G and F - a reference to Charles and Camilla's pet names for each other, Gladys and Fred

Charles and Diana in Hong Kong in November 1989

Prince William, Diana, Princess of Wales, Prince Harry and Prince Charles, Prince of Wales, attend the wedding of the Duke of Hussey's daughter in May 1989

Charles and Camilla on their first public outing together in 1998

During the 1990s Charles and Camilla embarked on an ambitious PR campaign to rehabilitate Camilla's public image