Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · October 7, 2025 · Entertainment

The Enigmatic Chemistry: J.Lo & Ben Affleck's Unexpected Reunion!

Body language expert Judi James explained the odd dynamics between A-list exes Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck when they reunited at the Kiss Of The Spider Woman premiere on Monday for the first time after their divorce was finalized in February

JENNY FROM THE BLOCK AND BEN AFFLECK REIGNITE THEIR ROMANCE ON RED CARPET, BUT IS IT FOR REAL THIS TIME?

The drama! The intrigue! The romance that refuses to die! Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck made a jaw-dropping appearance on the red carpet together at the New York premiere of the remake of Kiss Of The Spider Woman, leaving fans stunned and speculating about their relationship status.

It's been just over a year since J.Lo filed for divorce from her 53-year-old ex-husband, citing "irreconcilable differences." But despite their split being finalized in February, it seems like these two Hollywood A-listers still have some unfinished business to attend to. Or do they?

According to James, they former couple's latest appearance showed that the exes had switched roles, with Affleck now putting more effort into his performance, whereas Lopez used to coax him to look more positive on the red carpet

The couple's appearance at the premiere was nothing short of electric. Lopez, who stars in the film and produced through her production company Nuyorican Productions, stunned in a dramatic Harris Reed gown that showcased her famous hourglass curves. Meanwhile, Affleck looked dashing in a navy suit with a white button-up underneath.

But what caught everyone's attention was their body language. According to body language expert Judi James, the couple has switched roles since their divorce. "It used to be J-Lo putting in all the pose-producing effort on the red carpet when she was with Ben," James explained. "While he tended to stand in several stages of reflective, distanced or just impatient-looking body language."

However, at the Kiss Of The Spider Woman premiere, Affleck seemed to have turned over a new leaf. "Ben putting in all the body language graft here in what looks like a bid to appear joyful to be standing alongside his ex," James observed.

'Ben [is] putting in all the body language graft here in what looks like a bid to appear joyful to be standing alongside his ex,' James continued. But his high-energy behavior and broad smile indicate he may have an 'inner tension'

But is it just an act? Or does Ben genuinely want to put on a united front with his ex-wife? According to James, Affleck's behavior was "off-brand" for him. "His staccato, slightly jumpy movements and his insistently animated behavior look like he's putting in a lot of effort to appear jolly," she noted.

And it seems like J.Lo is right there with him, faking it till they make it? "Her smile seems to reveal a similar amount of effort as Ben's," James said. "It looks like she's urging him to look happier when they're together."

But what about their divorce being finalized just a few months ago? Is this a publicity stunt gone wrong? Or do these two still have feelings for each other?

'When the couple used to

Fans on social media were split, with some speculating that the couple might be getting back together. "3rd time's a charm...come on!" one fan joked on X (formerly Twitter).

Others were more skeptical. "These two are a mess," one user wrote. "Perfect for each other."

But what about Lopez's recent comments on their divorce? Just last month, she told CBS News Sunday Morning that her divorce from Affleck was the "best thing that ever happened" to her. She even admitted that it helped her grow as a person.

James went on to suggest that Affleck displayed 'some animated gesticulation,' before he learned in, 'making it a classic

And now, with this red carpet appearance, it seems like J.Lo is trying to send a message to her ex-husband and the world: she's moved on, but she still cares about him deeply.

But what about Ben? Is he truly invested in this fake romance, or is he just playing along for the sake of his career?

Only time will tell. But one thing's for sure - these two have a knack for creating drama wherever they go.

'It looks telling how J.Lo seems to have worn a personal

AND WHAT ABOUT THE FILM ITSELF?

The remake of Kiss Of The Spider Woman, directed by Bill Condon and produced through Artist Equity (Affleck's production company), has been getting mixed reviews from critics. But J.Lo is confident that it will be a hit.

"I told him this was the role I was born to play and I wanted to do it," she said of Affleck in an interview with People. "And he was like, 'Okay.' And he helped make it happen."

But what about their personal drama? How does J.Lo think their divorce will affect their working relationship?

"It's not going to be easy, but we're both professionals," she told Cowan on CBS News Sunday Morning.

SO, IS THIS THE END OF BEN AND JENNIFER'S LOVE STORY... OR JUST THE BEGINNING OF ANOTHER CHAPTER?

Only time will tell. But one thing's for sure - these two have a knack for creating drama wherever they go.

As the night went on, the couple was spotted chatting with their co-star Tonatiuh and director Bill Condon. They even posed together on the red carpet, with Affleck wrapping his arm around J.Lo's waist.

But beneath all the smiles and laughter, is there more to this reunion than meets the eye?

It seems like only J-Lo knows for sure. But one thing's for sure - she's not done with Ben just yet.

AND WHAT ABOUT THE FANS?

Fans on social media were divided about the couple's red carpet appearance. Some thought they might be getting back together, while others believed it was just a publicity stunt.

"I'm so confused," one fan wrote on X (formerly Twitter). "Is this real or is this for the cameras?"

Another user chimed in: "I don't care what their relationship status is... I just want to see more of them on screen."

SO, WILL THESE TWO GET BACK TOGETHER... OR IS IT JUST A PUBLICITY STUNT?

Only time will tell. But one thing's for sure - J-Lo and Ben Affleck are back in the headlines, and this time, it's not just about their divorce.

Stay tuned for more updates on this drama-filled love story.