Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · August 13, 2025 · Entertainment

Selena Gomez's Mysterious No-Show at Big Wedding: What Happened?

Mystery has surrounded Selena Gomez's, 33, whereabouts at Brooklyn Beckham, 26, and Nicola Peltz's, 30, vow renewal on August 2 after she was noticeably absent

Selena Gomez's Shocking Absence from Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz's Vow Renewal: A Friendship on the Rocks?

The highly anticipated vow renewal ceremony of Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz, held on August 2, has left fans and friends alike scratching their heads over one major absence: Selena Gomez. The singer's no-show has sparked whispers about a potential rift in her friendships with the couple.

Selena, 33, was noticeably absent from the intimate ceremony at Westchester County, where Brooklyn and Nicola exchanged vows for the second time. This move comes as a shock to fans who have witnessed their close bond over the years. The trio's friendship has been plastered all over social media, with gushing declarations of love and affection.

The trio formed an incredibly close bond over the past few years, with Selena cementing their closeness when she joked they were in 'throuple' back in 2023 (pictured together in 2023)

However, it seems that Selena's absence is not just about her busy schedule or conflicting commitments. According to sources connected to the wedding, the singer hasn't even bothered to congratulate the couple on their big day on social media. Her lack of acknowledgement has raised eyebrows, especially considering she was happy to post pictures from another friend's wedding earlier this week.

TheScholarlyNote.com reached out to Selena's representatives for comment but received no response. Meanwhile, sources close to the situation claim that Selena and Nicola have been keeping in touch, albeit not as frequently as before. It seems that Selena has been trying to keep Nicola's mind off the drama surrounding her family feud with Brooklyn's parents.

TheScholarlyNote.com learned that Selena has been messaging Nicola and discussing wedding plans for her upcoming nuptials to fiancé Benny Blanco. An insider revealed, "Selena is always there for her friends if, and when they need anything... She has been talking about her upcoming wedding and loves getting Nicola's advice."

Once plastered all over each other's social media with gushy photos, Selena's no-show and failure to acknowledge her 'best pals' has cast doubt over their once 'inseparable' friendship

However, this isn't the only shocking development in Brooklyn and Nicola's lives. Their vow renewal ceremony was also attended by a guest list of 200 people, with Selena's friend Dominic West among them. Interestingly, neither David nor Victoria Beckham were present at the ceremony, as they continue to be estranged from their son.

The Beckhams' absence is reportedly due to online "trolling" from Brooklyn and Nicola in the past. A source close to the family revealed, "Brooklyn's brothers have been fanning the flames... They've openly made fun of and trolled Brooklyn in comments on social media."

The Beckhams are said to be devastated by their son's actions, feeling that they have lost him forever. A source told TheScholarlyNote.com, "This was the final kick in the teeth for David and Victoria. Seeing Nelson having such a pivotal role at the ceremony was heartbreaking for David especially... Not one member of the 30-plus extended family knew about the wedding, or were invited."

Selena also failed to congratulate the couple on their big day on social media and chose not to like any of the couple's posts

Brooklyn's decision to wear his father-in-law Nelson Peltz's vintage 1985 bridal gown has been seen as a deliberate snub to his own parents. TheScholarlyNote.com learned that Brooklyn has grown increasingly estranged from his family over recent months, with some speculating that he may even consider giving up the Beckham surname.

TheScholarlyNote.com reached out to Brooklyn and Nicola's representatives for comment but received no response. As the drama surrounding their family feud continues to unfold, one thing is clear: Selena Gomez's absence from the vow renewal ceremony has sparked a heated debate about the state of her friendships with Brooklyn and Nicola.

What do you think? Is Selena's absence a sign of a deeper issue in her friendship with Brooklyn and Nicola? Share your thoughts with us in the comments below!

Selena has been pictured many times with the couple in recent years (pictured with her fiance Benny)

Selena's unusual absence was highlighted further when the singer's friend Dominic West (pictured together) and former assistant Theresa Mingus were reportedly on the guestlist

The snub was drawn to attention when she happily posted pictures on Instagram from Lil Ducky's nuptials earlier this week after attending with Benny

Despite her absence, Selena is said to have been comforting Nicola through the Beckham feud by distracting her with the planning of her own nuptials with Benny

Selena and Nicola were inseparable since striking up a friendship in late 2022. Her friendship with Brooklyn dates back to 2015 when they were pictured together at NYFW (pictured)

Brookyn's parents, David and Victoria Beckham and siblings Romeo, 22, Cruz, 20, and Harper, 14, were also missing from the 200 people guest list