Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · October 8, 2025 · Entertainment

RHONJ's Dolores Catania Recounts Shocking Home Invasion Horror

Dolores Catania, 54, opened up about a harrowing incident she experienced when the New Jersey townhome she lives in with her boyfriend was invaded by robbers armed with a blowtorch

Dolores Catania's Harrowing Home Invasion: A Glimpse into the High-Stakes Life of a Real Housewife

In a jaw-dropping revelation, Dolores Catania, the 54-year-old star of Bravo's The Real Housewives of New Jersey, opened up about a chilling encounter with danger that left her shaken to her core. The reality TV personality, known for her sharp tongue and unapologetic attitude, shared the harrowing details of a home invasion at her New Jersey townhome on Monday's episode of Jeff Lewis Live on SiriusXM.

As Catania recounted the traumatic event, it became clear that she and her boyfriend Paul Connell were not just victims of a brazen burglary but also unwitting accomplices to their own security system's flaws. The drama unfolded while they were filming the first season of The Real Housewives of Rhode Island for Bravo, with Connell distracted by his on-camera antics and tequila-fueled partying.

The Real Housewives of New Jersey star seen on a past appearance on Jeff Lewis Live

"I was in the middle of filming when my phone started ringing nonstop," Catania revealed. "It was Paul's son calling me frantically, asking if his dad was there because their house had just been broken into." The gravity of the situation hit her like a ton of bricks, and Connell admitted that he was taken aback by Catania's shock – a rare occurrence for someone known for her tough exterior.

The invaders, wielding a blowtorch to bypass the high-end security system, descended upon the property with calculated precision. According to Connell, this new tactic among thieves allows them to evade expensive security systems and silently slip into homes without triggering alarms. The couple's "insane" security setup, which they thought would keep them safe, was woefully inadequate against such cunning attackers.

In a twist of irony, the system, designed to alert authorities in 90 seconds while remaining quiet, ended up being a double-edged sword. Connell explained that the device stayed silent for an entire minute and a half after the break-in, allowing the intruders precious time to rummage through their home before the police arrived – just 20 seconds later.

(L-R) Shane Douglas, Connell, Catania and Lewis posed after the appearance Monday

The would-be thieves spent about eight minutes trying to gain entry and managed to stay inside for only around a minute. However, as Connell pointed out, they wouldn't have walked away with anything substantial even if they had succeeded, since the couple prefers not to keep valuables at that property, deeming it "not worth it."

The law enforcement response was swift and dramatic, with police arriving on the scene with their guns drawn – a stark reminder of the high-stakes world Catania and Connell inhabit. The incident serves as a cautionary tale for celebrities and public figures to be mindful of sharing their location in real-time, potentially putting themselves at risk.

"We all love to post when we're out and away," Catania said wryly. "Paul posted that day that we were in Rhode Island, and that night, we got broken into." The lesson was clear: discretion is key for those who live in the public eye.

In a related note, Catania's philanthropic work has been widely recognized, with her efforts honored by Brooklyn's Maimonides Medical Center in 2020. Her dedication to animal rescue groups also showcases her compassionate side. Despite this recent close call, Catania remains committed to using her platform for good and advocating for awareness about the importance of prioritizing security.

As the drama surrounding this incident continues to unfold, one thing is certain – Dolores Catania and Paul Connell will never take their safety for granted again.