Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 7, 2025 · Entertainment

Queen's Cutting Remark on Meghan: Inside the Royal Rift at Prince Philip’s Funeral

The photo of the Queen sitting alone in St George's Chapel as she said a final farewell to her husband is one of the most memorable photos from the latter years of her life

The Royal Rift Exposed: A Glimpse into the Private Lives of the Windsors

As the world mourned the loss of Prince Philip, the Duke of Edinburgh, a poignant photograph captured the essence of Queen Elizabeth's grief: sitting alone in St George's Chapel, surrounded by the solemn silence of Windsor. This heart-wrenching image has become an iconic symbol of the monarch's unwavering dedication to her husband and the British institution.

But beneath the surface of this somber ceremony lay a complex web of family dynamics, power struggles, and personal agendas that threatened to upend the very fabric of the Royal Family. As biographer Tom Bower reveals in his explosive book "Revenge: Meghan, Harry, and the War Between the Windsors," the days leading up to Philip's funeral were marked by tension, secrecy, and a palpable sense of unease.

Prince William, Peter Phillips, Prince Harry and Vice-Admiral Sir Timothy Laurence are pictured during the funeral of Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh on April 17, 2021 in Windsor

With Prince Philip's passing on April 9, the stage was set for a carefully choreographed farewell. But just a month prior, the Sussexes' explosive interview with Oprah Winfrey had sent shockwaves through the Palace, leaving many wondering what the future held for Harry and Meghan's relationship with their royal family.

The media frenzy surrounding Philip's funeral was a stark reminder of the Queen's dilemma: how to balance her grief with the demands of duty, all while navigating the treacherous waters of her grandchildren's personal lives. As Bower wrote: "Neither the Palace nor the media understood the Sussexes' mindset when Harry arrived in London just before the service."

Harry's presence at the funeral was a delicate matter, as he had been stripped of his military titles and was no longer seen as an active member of the Royal Family. To minimize any potential embarrassment for both Harry and Andrew, who was mired in allegations of misconduct, all the male members of the Royal Family donned morning suits. It was a masterstroke of royal diplomacy, but one that couldn't entirely erase the palpable tension between the brothers.

Meghan Markle (pictured with the Queen in 2018) cited her seven-month pregnancy as the reason for not attending Prince Philip's funeral

As they walked towards St George's Chapel, William and Harry were separated by their cousin Peter Phillips, strategically placed to act as a "diplomatic buffer." The reunion, though brief, seemed to hold promise – or so it appeared. Behind closed doors, however, whispers of distrust and resentment lingered, fueled by the ongoing drama surrounding Meghan and Harry's decision to step back from royal life.

Just days after Philip's funeral, William made an innocuous comment to Harry: "Yes, it was great, wasn't it?" The question hung in the air like a challenge, as if daring his brother to reveal his true feelings. And though their interaction seemed friendly on the surface, insiders revealed that William harbored doubts about engaging with Harry beyond polite conversation.

"Any discussion of substance would go straight back to Meghan to be leaked out via Oprah, Gayle King or some other tentacle of the Sussex network," a source close to the Royal Family confided. The implication was clear: trust had been broken, and it might take years for the wounds to heal.

Biographer Tom Bower paints a solemn picture of the days surrounding the funeral in April 2021 in his book, Revenge: Meghan, Harry, and the War Between the Windsors

The Queen, meanwhile, retreated to her Windsor Castle apartment, silencing those around her as she navigated the depths of her sorrow. Her senior dresser, Angela Kelly, recounted the poignant moment when the monarch returned to her sitting room, closed the door behind her, and was alone with her thoughts.

As if to underscore the gravity of Philip's passing, the Queen shared a cherished photograph of herself and her husband relaxing in the Scottish Highlands in 2003. The image, captured by Sophie during a family summer holiday, would later become a poignant design for Edward and Sophie's annual Christmas card in memory of the Queen in 2022.

But one person who felt Philip's loss deeply was Peter Phillips, the Queen's eldest grandchild. In an emotional interview, he revealed that not being able to hug his grandmother during this difficult time had been one of the hardest parts of coping with her grief: "Everybody saw the image of Her Majesty sitting alone. It would have been the same for any other family... it's the same for a lot of families."

The Duke of Edinburgh's funeral was planned for April 17 and Bower wrote: 'Neither the Palace nor the media understood the Sussexes' mindset when Harry arrived in London just before the service'

As the world continues to grapple with the aftermath of Philip's funeral, one thing is clear: the Windsors are at a crossroads. Will they find a way to heal and reconcile their differences? Or will the rifts between them continue to widen, threatening the very foundations of the institution?

Only time will tell, but for now, the Queen sits alone in St George's Chapel, surrounded by memories of her beloved husband and the weight of responsibility that lies ahead.

Strategically, Peter Phillips was placed in between the feuding brothers to act as a 'diplomatic buffer', wrote royal author Robert Lacey

Royal aides were said to have been 'walking on eggshells' as they tried to navigate the rift between the brothers following Harry and Meghan's split from the Royal Family the year prior

Immediately after Philip's funeral, Charles exited the church and stripped his face mask away. He had clearly been crying

A Bearer Party of Royal Marines carry Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh's coffin (draped in his Royal Standard Flag and bearing his Royal Navy cap, sword and a bouquet of lilies, white roses, freesia and sweet peas) into St. George's Chapel

It was the first time William and Harry appeared in public together in more than a year, and the brothers were seated opposite one another during the service

As was his wish, Philip's funeral was a 'minimal fuss' ceremony. He didn't want an eulogy or an elaborate state funeral; 'He doesn’t see himself as important enough for that,' an aide once said of the Duke of Edinburgh

The Queen looks at the coffin of Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, during his funeral service at St George's Chapel

'During the short procession, many watched whether Harry signalled any regret towards his family,' Bower added

'Few would not be touched by the perfection of British ceremonial tradition. The weather was forecast to be perfect,' wrote Bower

Although their interaction looked perfectly friendly, Robert Lacey reported that William could see no point in talking to Harry beyond pleasantries

Bower wrote: 'Sitting alone and isolated, the 94-year-old monarch's grief was concealed behind a black mask. Everyone was moved by her dignity'

Prince Andrew, Princess Anne, Sir Timothy Laurence and Prince Harry are pictured during the funeral of Prince Philip

Though her grief was private, in public the Queen was determined to carry on as normal. 'Life goes on,' she said. 'It has to'

On the eve of Prince Philip's funeral in April 2021, Buckingham Palace released this picture of Philip and the Queen