Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 30, 2025 · Entertainment

Nicole Kidman's Racy Roles and the Tumultuous End of Her Marriage to Keith Urban

Nicole Kidman's raunchy roles went into overdrive recently notably releasing two bonkbusters last year  in the form of A Family Affair and Babygirl (pictured with Harris Dickinson in Babygirl)

BOMBSHELL! Nicole Kidman's Marriage on the Rocks: Sources Claim Lack of Intimacy and "Blindsided" Actress is Ready to Move On

Nicole Kidman, the Australian actress known for her daring roles in racy films like Dead Calm, Babygirl, and The Perfect Couple, has been making headlines with her latest projects. However, behind the scenes, sources close to the actress have revealed that her 19-year marriage to country music star Keith Urban is on shaky ground.

According to insiders, the couple's busy schedules and a lack of intimacy have taken a toll on their relationship. Nicole, 58, was reportedly "blindsided" when Keith, 57, asked for a divorce, leaving many wondering what went wrong in this seemingly perfect marriage.

This week, it was revealed that the actress, 58, was splitting from husband Keith Urban , 57, after 19 years of marriage with a lack of intimacy said to blame (pictured in 2023)

But signs of trouble had been brewing for months. Just last July, Keith abruptly ended an interview with Adelaide radio show hosts Hayley & Max in the Morning after being questioned about Nicole's racy sex scenes in her latest films. When asked if he was uncomfortable watching his wife engage in love scenes with younger actors like Zac Efron, 37, Keith remained tight-lipped and quickly exited the Zoom call.

It's no secret that Nicole has been pushing boundaries in her acting career, but Keith's reaction suggests he may have struggled to reconcile his role as a devoted husband with the provocative content of some of her recent films. The couple's friends have revealed that they've had their fair share of disagreements about Nicole's roles, particularly after she starred alongside Harris Dickinson in Babygirl.

The film, released last year, featured several steamy scenes between Nicole and her co-star, who is nearly two decades younger than the actress. While Nicole described the experience as "liberating," sources close to Keith claim he was visibly uncomfortable during the filming process. The tension between them has been building for months, with some speculating that Keith's tattoo of "babygirl" on his neck now takes on a different connotation in light of Nicole's starring role.

there were signs of strain in the marriage this July - when Keith abruptly ended an interview when questioned about his Nicole's recent sex scenes (Nicole pictured in Babygirl)

Nicole's latest projects have sparked controversy among fans and critics alike. In addition to Babygirl, the actress appeared in A Family Affair and The Perfect Couple, both of which featured explicit sex scenes with her co-stars. While some praised her for pushing boundaries and exploring complex themes, others criticized her for prioritizing shock value over artistic merit.

But what's perhaps most revealing is Nicole's own candidness about her marriage and her approach to intimacy. In an interview last year, she revealed that she doesn't believe in the concept of a "perfect" marriage, stating, "There's no perfect anything." When asked if this applied to her relationship with Keith, she responded bluntly, "I don't see any of that."

The couple's friends have been quick to come to their defense, citing their commitment to each other and their children. However, sources close to the family reveal that the cracks in their relationship had been growing for months.

While Nicole received critical acclaim for Babygirl, her husband did not attend any of the premieres with her - remaining in Australia for work (pictured with Harris at the LA premiere)

Just weeks ago, Nicole attended a high-profile event at Wimbledon without her husband, sparking rumors about the state of their marriage. The couple's daughters, Sunday, 17, and Faith, 14, have reportedly been spending more time apart from their father as he embarks on his High And Alive World Tour in the US.

As the news of Nicole and Keith's split emerges, fans are left wondering what went wrong in this seemingly perfect marriage. Sources close to the couple confirm that a lack of intimacy has taken its toll, but it remains unclear whether they will be able to reconcile their differences during the holiday season or Keith's upcoming birthday next month.

As the drama unfolds, one thing is clear: Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban's marriage has been anything but "perfect" behind closed doors. The question now is what happens next for this A-list couple.

Babygirl was the latest in a long line of racy roles taken on by Nicole, who had just starred in sizzling rom-com A Family Affair alongside Zac Efron, 37

Sources:

  • Woman's Day
  • The Scholarly Note

The pair were reunited in the Netflix flick, having first portrayed lovers 12 years ago in the buzzy crime drama The Paperboy

She also stunned fans last year with her racy sex scene with Liev Schreiber, 57, in Netflix's mystery drama The Perfect Couple

When Nicole and Keith tied the knot in 2006 she already had a reputation for her racy scenes. Stripping off for a racy encounter with Billy Zane in 1989's Dead Calm put her on the map

She famously romped with then-husband Tom Cruise in 1999's Eyes Wide Shut

She was also seen getting frisky with Matt Dillon in 1995's To Die For

In 2012 she made a return to raunchiness with Hemingway & Gellhorn which featured a surprisingly explicit two minute sex scene with co-star Clive Owen

In The Killing Of The Sacred Deer she stripped down to her underwear and pretended to be medically unconscious for her husband - who found the bizarre situation sexually arousing

In Big Little Lies she initially appeared to be turned on by shockingly violent episodes with her abusive husband (Alexander Skarsgård) which ultimately led to them having rough sex

Cracks in Keith and Nicole's marriage were highlighted two months ago when the country music singer stormed out of an interview after being questioned about her sex scenes (pictured on their wedding day in 2006)

It was the latest in a series of signs that there was trouble in paradise, including a strained last appearance together at the FIFA Club World Cup 2025 football match in June

The following month Nicole attended the Wimbledon 2025 Championships' final day without her husband. Keith was still travelling the US with his High And Alive World Tour at the time