Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · July 6, 2025 · Entertainment

Meghan Markle's Polo Puzzles: Starring Role or Stage Faux Pas?

Meghan and Harry at the Royal Salute Polo Challenge at The USPA National Polo Center in Wellington, Florida, in December 2024

The Royal Rebel: Meghan Markle's Stage Struggles Exposed

In a shocking twist, it seems that former actress turned royal, Meghan Markle, is not as comfortable in the spotlight as she thought. Despite her successful seven-season run as Rachel Zane in the hit US legal drama Suits, Meghan has been spotted struggling to navigate the nuances of presenting on stage beside her husband, Prince Harry.

A recent analysis of two separate polo events by body language expert Judi James has revealed a pattern of behavior that suggests Meghan's desire for control and attention can sometimes clash with the needs of others. According to James, Meghan's "small polite bounce or little hop into place" when directed to take her rightful place on stage is a clear indication of her willingness to follow direction – but only up to a point.

Meghan, Harry and his team are pictured at the Santa Barbara Polo & Racquet Club after Harry's side Los Padres won the Lisle Nixon Memorial trophy in May 2022

The first cringe-worthy moment occurred in May 2022 at the Santa Barbara Polo & Racquet Club, where Meghan was presenting Prince Harry and his polo team, Los Padres, with a trophy after their big win. The prize-giving ceremony had clearly not been rehearsed, and Meghan found herself awkwardly positioned between her husband and one of his teenage teammates as they struggled to lift the heavy cup over her head for a photo.

"It's like she wants to be the star of the stage and the star in life," Thomas Markle, Meghan's estranged father, revealed in an interview. And it seems that this desire has been evident since childhood, when Meghan would often take center stage in school performances and express a deep-seated ambition to become a film actress.

As James pointed out, "She does seem to remain in some form of 'control' mode though, gesturing Harry forward to pick up the cup and tapping the player next to her on the arm to apparently alert him too." This behavior suggests that Meghan's natural tendency is to take charge – even if it means pushing others aside.

Footage of the 2022 polo encounter was shared online at the time by a Twitter user who noted it looked like they 'didn't know where to put her' and then ended up 'blocking her with the trophy'

The second incident occurred two years later at the Royal Salute Polo Challenge in Florida. This time, Meghan was caught on camera trying to direct the charity's chair, Dr Sophie Chandauka, into a specific spot on stage – despite having confirmed earlier that she would not be attending the event. The result was a chaotic and awkward pose setup that left everyone involved looking like they were scrambling for position.

As James concluded, "A lot depends on whether the viewer likes Meghan or not and whether she was seen by the others as having the 'right' to be up there directing the pose or not." It's clear that Meghan's behavior has been rubbing people the wrong way – especially Dr Chandauka, who recently called out Meghan for causing "disruption" at the event and bringing her famous friend Serena Williams along without warning.

In a bombshell interview with Sky News, Dr Chandauka revealed that she had been asked to issue a statement in support of Meghan after the incident – but refused, citing concerns about being seen as an extension of the Sussexes' brand. This has sparked a heated debate about the power dynamics at play within the royal family and the boundaries between personal and public life.

Despite her previous career as a successful actress, it seems Meghan - pictured as Rachel Zane in Suits - is not as comfortable on stage as a royal

So what does this mean for Meghan's future on stage? Will she continue to struggle with her desire for control and attention, or will she learn to adapt to the changing demands of royal life? Only time will tell – but one thing is certain: we'll be watching with bated breath as this drama continues to unfold.

Sources:

  • Judi James, body language expert
  • Thomas Markle, Meghan's estranged father
  • Dr Sophie Chandauka, charity chair and recent critic of Meghan's behavior

Body language expert Judi James said: 'Meghan attempts to take the wooden box, likely Champagne, from the hands of the other player, but he refuses to let go'

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'As the trophy is raised, Meghan is pushed to the back and squashed under the cup, needing to hold her large-brimmed hat until she manages to move forward to perform some seal-claps of congratulation,' says Ms James

In April 2024, Meghan was caught in another awkward moment at a polo event in Florida

Meghan and Harry at the Royal Salute Polo Challenge to benefit Sentebale, a charity founded by the prince and Prince Seeiso of Lesotho to support children in Lesotho and Botswana

Ms James said the crowded stage made the 'pose set-up very awkward', pointed out that Meghan was already in an awkward spot behind the cup when Dr Sophie Chandauka (centre) stepped on stage

It has been alleged that the polo event was gatecrashed by Meghan with tennis star Serena Williams and a Netflix crew in tow

A group photo of the polo team with the Duchess of Sussex the Duke of Sussex taking centre stage

Meghan had caused 'disruption' on a very crowded stage after turning up at short notice and bringing her 'very famous friend' Serena Williams, the chair of Harry's charity claimed

Royal expert Richard Fitzwilliams said Meghan's unexpected appearance at the event 'caused confusion', describing the incident between the Duchess and Dr Chavunduka onstage as 'awkward'

The Duke of Sussex with Sentebale chairwoman Sophie Chandauka during the Royal Salute Polo Challenge