Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · July 29, 2025 · Entertainment

Living Together Amidst Cancer: Teddi Mellencamp’s Unusual Arrangement with Ex

Teddi Mellencamp, 44, is separated from her husband, Edwin Arroyave, 48, but the two have put their divorce on hold and living together in the same house as she battle stage four cancer

Teddi Mellencamp's Bitter-Sweet Reality: Battling Stage 4 Cancer, Living with Ex-Husband Edwin Arroyave

In a shocking revelation, reality TV star Teddi Mellencamp is still residing with her estranged husband Edwin Arroyave as she bravely battles stage four cancer. The stunning news has left fans and followers alike stunned, wondering how the couple's complicated relationship has evolved amidst her devastating diagnosis.

Teddi, 44, who recently became a target of burglars at her luxurious Los Angeles mansion, opened up about their living arrangements on the Jamie Kern Lima Show earlier this week. It was revealed that when they initially separated in October 2024, they decided to let their three adorable kids - Slate (12), Cruz (10), and Dove (5) - live full-time in their family home while Teddi and Edwin took turns staying with them.

The former Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star opened up about her living situation in an appearance on The Jamie Kern Lima Show, which was released on Tuesday

However, things took a dramatic turn after Teddi's diagnosis. Her close friend Kyle Richards offered her a place to stay at her residence, joking that she had "shared custody" of Teddi on Tuesdays and Wednesdays during an appearance on Bravo's Hot Mic podcast. Although Edwin occasionally stayed in their other house when Teddi was feeling unwell, he surprisingly decided to move back into the family home - albeit downstairs in the bedroom.

But what's even more intriguing is that Teddi has given her blessing for Edwin to start dating again. In fact, she went on to reveal that she's not interested in rekindling their romance and wants him to be happy with someone new. "I want our kids to be happy, and I want us to have a good friendship and relationship," she confessed.

Teddi's decision to give Edwin the green light to date comes after she hinted that his infidelity had been an ongoing issue in their marriage for years during an appearance on The Skinny Confidential podcast in February. "When we met it was hot, and it was all the things, but then there would be somebody else," she candidly admitted.

The couple's complicated history is well-documented, with rumors of Teddi's alleged affair prior to their official split fueling speculation about their relationship dynamics. However, it seems that Edwin has been forgiven - at least for now.

As Teddi bravely navigates her cancer diagnosis and the challenges that come with it, she's prioritizing her family's well-being above all else. "My dad [musician John Mellencamp] and my family just said, 'Let's wait until she's better,' which is exactly what we're doing," a source close to the couple revealed.

But here's the kicker: Teddi has also been open about dating someone new while undergoing treatment for cancer - albeit briefly. "It went all over the press, and I'm like, 'One: this is long enough ago that by the time you found out who the person was, I wasn't even dating them,'" she quipped.

The reality star had surgery to remove four brain tumors removed in February. Arroyave is currently staying in a downstairs bedroom. 'We can live in the same house,' she said. 'We don¿t argue'

When asked if Edwin had given her his blessing to date someone new, Teddi coyly replied, "We've talked about it. He knows how I feel." So, what does this mean for their complicated relationship? Only time will tell.

For now, the couple's unconventional living arrangement is a testament to the strength of their love - or perhaps just a practical decision amidst the chaos of cancer treatment and personal growth. One thing's for sure: Teddi Mellencamp is an inspiration to us all as she bravely battles stage four cancer with her family by her side.

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Mellencamp has give her blessing to Arroyave to see other women. 'I would be fine with him dating,' she told Lima;  Pictured in Las Vegas in September 2022

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As for for herself, the personal trainer said, 'for a little while, I was dating somebody. It went all over the press' but the relationship has since ended

As for dating herself, the reality star said her therapist had encouraged her to do 'Anything that you want to do right now and you feel in your heart that you want to do, do it'