Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · June 4, 2025 · Entertainment

Leah Remini Clears Up 'Rift' Rumors with Jennifer Lopez: Where Their Friendship Stands Today

Leah Remini (R, pictured June 2021) denied there was ever a 'rift' with her former BFF Jennifer Lopez (L), which was rumored to have stemmed from her skipping her 2022 Georgia nuptials to now fourth ex-husband Ben Affleck (M)

LEAH REMINI SHEDS LIGHT ON MYSTERIOUS RIFT WITH JENNIFER LOPEZ

Leah Remini is finally speaking out about the rumored rift between her and BFF Jennifer Lopez, a friendship that has been left hanging in limbo for over two years. In an exclusive interview with Us Weekly, the 54-year-old King of Queens alum set the record straight on whether there was ever a falling out with the pop diva.

Remini insisted that despite their distance, their friendship is far from over. "Sometimes you don't talk to people every day like you used to, but that doesn't mean the love is lost," she explained. "Friendships ebb and flow. That doesn't mean we're at odds."

The 54-year-old King of Queens alum clarified to Us Weekly on Wednesday: 'Sometimes you don't talk to people every day like you used to, but that doesn't mean the love is lost. Friendships ebb and flow. That doesn't mean we're at odds' (pictured in 2020)

But what sparked the rumor of a rift in the first place? Sources close to the couple claimed that Remini's absence from Lopez's 2022 wedding to Ben Affleck was a major blow to their friendship. However, Remini maintains that she simply couldn't attend due to prior commitments.

When asked about her decision not to attend the high-profile nuptials, Remini revealed that it wasn't a deliberate snub but rather a scheduling conflict. "I cherish my friendships and not everybody is meant to be in your life in the way that they were," she said. "We'd text each other loving messages of support, but sometimes life gets busy."

Remini and Lopez's friendship dates back to 2004, and their bond has been tested over the years. The two have been through thick and thin together, including Lopez's high-profile marriage and subsequent divorce from Marc Anthony.

Last September, Leah and the 55-year-old pop diva got back in touch with each other following the legal separations from their respective spouses: 'We'd text each other loving messages of support' (pictured in 2019)

In fact, Remini has credited Lopez with being a source of strength during her own tumultuous times. In 2013, Remini left the Church of Scientology after 34 years, citing abuse and exploitation within the organization. Lopez was one of the few A-listers who publicly supported Remini's decision to leave.

But despite their close bond, there have been rumors of tension between the two women in recent months. Sources claimed that Remini was "shocked" by Lopez's decision to marry Affleck just a year after her divorce from Anthony.

However, Remini maintains that their friendship is stronger than ever. "I have many friends that I don't talk to every day," she said. "That doesn't mean we're at odds — it's just that I'm at a different place and so are they."

Jennifer and the 52-year-old Oscar winner's divorce was finalized on February 20 after two years of marriage (pictured in 2024)

When asked about her current friendships, Remini gushed about her BFF Michelle Visage, whom she talks to daily on FaceTime. She also praised comedian Chelsea Handler for being a supportive friend and fellow mom.

In fact, Remini and Handler have become close friends over the years, with Handler even visiting Remini's daughter Sofia Bella Pagán in New York City when she was just a baby. "Chelsea will go out of her way to visit Sofia," Remini gushed. "She's been an amazing friend to me and my family."

As for her friendship with Lopez, Remini remains hopeful that their bond will only continue to grow stronger. "We may not talk every day like we used to, but that doesn't mean the love is lost," she said.

The two-time Emmy winner finalized her divorce from husband Angelo Pagán (L, pictured in 2021 with their daughter Sofia) on October 11 after 28 years together and 21 years of marriage

And what about the infamous 2018 Access Hollywood interview where Remini crashed Lopez's segment to joke about who picks up the check? Remini laughed it off, saying: "That was just me having a little fun. We've always been able to poke fun at each other."

As for their latest public appearance together, Remini shared a photo of herself hanging out with Marc Anthony and his fourth wife Nadia Ferreira Muñiz in 2022.

When asked about her current BFFs, Remini raved about Michelle Visage, whom she talks to on FaceTime every morning. "We have our own little text chain," she said. "Holly Robinson, Tisha Campbell, and I are all connected."

Leah and Lopez haven't been pictured together since June 2021, but their friendship dates as far back as 2004 (pictured in 2006)

As for the future of their friendship, Remini remains optimistic. "I cherish my friendships and not everybody is meant to be in your life in the way that they were," she said.

Sources close to the couple claim that Lopez has been trying to rekindle their friendship, but Remini maintains that their bond will only continue to grow stronger with time.

Only time will tell if Remini's words are truly reflective of her relationship with Lopez. But one thing is certain: this friendship is far from over.

Remini frequently credited her A-list alliance with the American Music Awards host for giving her the strength to leave the 'abusive' Church of Scientology in 2013 after 34 years (pictured in 2018)

The native New Yorkers portrayed 'Value Shop' supermarket co-workers Joan and Maya in Peter Segal's dismally-reviewed 2017 rom-com Second Act, which earned $72.3M at the box office

And in 2018, Leah let fans in on the surprising dynamic of their bond when she crashed Lopez's Access Hollywood interview to bust her balls about how and when she picks up the check (pictured in 2021 with Elaine Goldsmith-Thomas)

Remini accused: 'In a group, when it's like 100 people you do [pay]. But when it's me and you? Bulls***, Jennifer! She never has her credit card on her, conveniently'

Annoyed, the two-time Grammy nominee replied: 'So she picks up the cheap checks and I pick up the expensive checks. Who picks up the tab then?! This is my interview!'

In 2022, Leah shared a snap of herself happily hanging out with Jennifer's third ex-husband Marc Anthony (M) and his much younger fourth wife Nadia Ferreira Muñiz (3-R)

Remini talks to her current BFF Michelle Visage (L, pictured in 2021) 'on FaceTime for an hour every morning' and she's on a funny 'text chain' with Holly Robinson (M) and Tisha Campbell

The current NYU student also gushed over how her comedian gal pal Chelsea Handler (R, pictured in 2021) 'will go out of her way to visit' her daughter Sofia Bella Pagán in New York after knowing her since she 'was in diapers'