Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · August 19, 2025 · Entertainment

Kristin Cavallari Opens Up About Her 'Really Sad' Love Life Post-Split

Kristin Cavallari is opening up about her lackluster sex life; pictured in a July Instagram post

Kristin Cavallari Spills All About Her Sex Life - and It's a Real Downer!

The usually bubbly and vivacious Kristin Cavallari is dishing out some juicy deets about her love life on her podcast, Let's Be Honest. The Laguna Beach alum, 38, has been keeping it real with her fans, but this time she's getting candid about the lack of action in her sex life.

After her split from Mark Estes, 25, last year - which raised some eyebrows due to their 13-year age gap - Kristin has been focusing on herself. And honey, it shows! The Uncommon James founder is glowing and seems to have found a new sense of purpose.

She split up from Mark Estes after seven months together last year

But let's get back to the tea: Kristin revealed that she hasn't exactly been dating much this year. In fact, she confessed that her love life has been leaving something to be desired - and by "something," we mean everything! The blonde bombshell laughed it off, saying, "Other than sex, obviously, which we won't even go there 'cause the lack of that is, it's really sad."

It seems Kristin has found a new BFF in Justin Anderson, who she credits with fulfilling her emotional needs. But when it comes to intimacy, well, let's just say she's been feeling a little...dry.

"I haven't been dating this year, you guys," Kristin admitted. "I did just go on a date, and it was a great date, and it was a really great first date back in the game." And while that's all well and good, we can't help but wonder - is she still feeling a little rusty?

Kristin admitted she has been focusing on herself since calling it quits from Mark

Kristin even joked about meeting potential suitors, saying, "It felt good to meet him. I was excited to go on a date. Let's put it that way, because it's been a minute." A minute? More like several months! But hey, at least she's back in the game.

And speaking of games, Kristin has been playing matchmaker herself. Last month, she chatted with celebrity matchmaker Patti Stanger about the type of man she'd like to date next. And guess what? She's looking for a coach!

"I'm too old for athletes now," Kristin declared. "Where are the hot coaches?" We don't blame her one bit! Who wouldn't want a dashing, older gentleman with a few years under his belt?

Cavallari's relationship with Estes, 25, made headlines due to their 13-year age gap

Patti agreed that coaches make great catches - after all, they're often in their 40s and possess that perfect blend of scruff, nice hair, and charisma. But Kristin knows there's a catch (no pun intended): "The problem is they work a lot."

We can't help but wonder if this is Kristin's way of saying she's looking for someone who's a little more established - or at least has a 9-to-5 job that doesn't require him to be on the road all the time. After all, she's been through the NFL-player-in-a-high-profile-marriage drama with Jay Cutler.

And what about Raya, the exclusive dating app? Kristin mentioned that she's "seen a couple coaches" on there, but we're guessing she might need to do some more scrolling if she wants to find Mr. Right.

Kristin was also previously married to NFL alum Jay Cutler, whom she shares three children with; pictured 2019

As for now, it seems Kristin is taking things slow and focusing on herself - and we can't blame her one bit! After all, as the old adage goes: "You can't pour from an empty cup."

Cavallari has been candid about her love life with fans