Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · August 18, 2025 · Entertainment

Joss Stone Breaks Silence on Her 'Extremely Dangerous' Abusive Relationship

Joss Stone has revealed she was in an abusive relationship as she opened up about the 'extremely dangerous' time in her life in a new Instagram video on Monday

POP SENSATION JOSS STONE REVEALS HEARTBREAKING ORDEAL OF ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

In a shocking and candid confession, pop sensation Joss Stone has opened up about her terrifying experience in an abusive relationship. The 38-year-old singer, known for her soulful voice and chart-topping hits like "You Had Me," revealed the harrowing details of her ordeal in a heartfelt Instagram video on Monday.

Stone, who is now happily married to former US Marine Cody DaLuz with four adorable children, bravely shared her story to raise awareness about domestic abuse and offer support to those going through similar experiences. She explained that she was in an abusive relationship for an unspecified period, during which time she attempted to leave multiple times but faced increasing danger.

The singer, 38, explained how her former partner once threw her out of his home in the middle of the night in the pouring rain while she was only wearing a T-shirt

The singer described one particularly frightening incident where her former partner threw her out of his home in the middle of the night, leaving her soaked and shivering in just a T-shirt. "He thought he had trapped me," Stone recalled, "but I had cleverly clocked the code to get out of the gate and managed to escape."

However, the situation took a darker turn when her partner dragged her back into the house, telling her that the police were on their way to arrest her (a lie, as it turned out). But Stone's quick thinking and resourcefulness ultimately allowed her to leave him behind.

"I didn't need to be noble and kind by breaking up with him face-to-face," she explained. "I tried that many times, but it was extremely dangerous. As I've learned from my own experience, having a 'to-go' bag and a plan in place can be a lifesaver."

Joss, who didn't reveal when the domestic relationship was, admitted she attempted to 'leave him many many times' but the situation became more dangerous

Stone's advice to those in similar situations is clear: prioritize your safety above all else. "Don't let him trap you," she warned. "If you need to leave, do it discreetly and with caution. Make sure you have a new phone, charger, and identification documents ready. And always have a safe word or plan with your children."

In a poignant postscript, Stone emphasized the importance of seeking help and support from organizations that specialize in domestic abuse. "Don't suffer in silence," she urged her fans. "Reach out to these wonderful people who can offer you guidance, encouragement, and safety."

The singer's courageous decision to share her story has sent shockwaves across social media platforms, with many praising her bravery and willingness to raise awareness about this critical issue.

Now opening up for the first time, Joss said: 'I was in a relationship, I had tried to leave him, I can't even tell you how many times and each time it felt like it was getting more dangerous'

HELP IS AT HAND

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, don't hesitate to reach out for help. Organizations like Refuge (0808 2000 247) are available 24/7 to provide support, guidance, and a safe haven from abusive relationships.

The shocking statistics speak for themselves: 1 in 3 women will experience some form of domestic abuse at some point in their lives. But with the right support and resources, you can break free from the cycle of abuse and start anew.

Joss was eventually able to leave him when she went off to work touring and instead of 'being noble and kind' and ending the relationship face to face, she 'just never went back'; pictured 2023

Joss Stone's story is a powerful reminder that you are not alone, and there is hope for a brighter future. As she so eloquently puts it: "Only cowards abuse women. You are strong, and you can do this."

Originally prompting the conversation, one fan wrote to her, 'I'm ready to leave him, help!', Joss shared her advice in a second video and urged women to have a 'to go bag' well hidden

In the caption, Joss revealed she decided to tell her story so other women know they are 'not alone' and shared a number of a helpline in the hope to help other women

Joss is now married to former US Marine Cody DaLuz and they share four children, Violet, three, Shackleton, two, nine-month-old son Bear, who they welcomed via adoption, and Nalima, three-months; pictured 2023