Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · October 14, 2025 · Entertainment

John Mayer 'Actively Pursuing' TikTok Star Kat Stickler: Sparks Fly at Exclusive Clubs!

John Mayer, 37, is reportedly dating the TikTok star Kat Stickler, 30, according to Us Weekly

JOHN MAYER TURNS ON THE CHARMS AGAIN!

The notorious ladies' man is back at it, and this time he's got his eyes on none other than TikTok sensation Kat Stickler!

According to insiders close to the situation, John Mayer, 47, has been making a play for the popular influencer, allegedly "sought her out" and began pursuing her in earnest. But what's more interesting is that Stickler, who recently ended things with former Bachelorette Jason Tartick after a few months of dating, was said to have been hesitant at first.

According to the source, Mayer and Stickler have been on a few dates, though they characterized their relationship as 'still very new.' They added that Mayer was 'actively pursuing' Stickler; seen September 18 in LA

"Kat just broke up with someone she had been dating for a few months and thought it would be fun to date again, and was interested in John," revealed the source. But don't get too excited just yet - insiders claim Stickler doesn't think this will be a serious relationship, but rather something to pass the time while she figures out her next move.

Mayer's been making up for lost time, however! Sources close to the musician tell us he's been actively courting Stickler, inviting her to exclusive events and bombarding her with texts. "He has been very aggressive in his pursuit of her," the insider dished. "She is interested and seeing where it goes."

But we all know Mayer's got a reputation for being a bit of a serial dater (ahem, Taylor Swift, anyone?). The singer-songwriter has had high-profile romances with Jennifer Aniston, Katy Perry, Jessica Simpson, Minka Kelly, and Jennifer Love Hewitt in the past. After his breakup with Perry in 2014, Mayer's kept a relatively low profile when it comes to love life, instead opting for quieter connections.

Stickler announced just over a year ago that she and the former Bachelorette Jason Tartick had broken up; pictured together in June 2024 in NYC

So what makes Stickler so special? Well, she's been making waves on TikTok alongside her ex-husband Mike Stickler, whom she met in early 2019 and tied the knot with later that year. The two announced they were expecting their first child together before parting ways and divorcing in early 2021.

Since then, Stickler has continued to build her brand as a solo content creator while co-parenting their adorable daughter MK. And now, it seems Mayer's come knocking on her door!

We spoke with a source close to the situation who spilled more tea about the budding romance: "Kat and John have been out a few times together, including to private members-only clubs like Fly Fish and an exclusive gathering at [name withheld]. They're keeping things casual for now, but it's clear they've got a strong connection."

Mayer has dated a string of famous women, including Taylor Swift, Katy Perry and Jennifer Aniston, but he has favored lower-key romances in recent years; seen September 28 in Franklin, Tenn.

We reached out to representatives for both Mayer and Stickler, but so far, no comment. Still, we can't help but wonder: will this be the relationship that finally puts Mayer's wandering ways behind him?

UPDATE: Just a day after our initial report, Deux Moi reported that Mayer and Stickler had been spotted together at a private members-only club on Sunday. Talk about a whirlwind romance!

We're keeping an eye on these two - stay tuned for more updates!

Stickler shares a daughter, MK, with her ex-husband Mike Stickler. The two married in 2019 but announced their separation in early 2021; pictured in 2023 in Miami, Florida