Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · October 19, 2025 · Entertainment

J.Lo's Love Life Under Fire: Ojani Noa Accuses Her of Infidelity

Jennifer Lopez 's ex husband Ojani Noa has accused the star of cheating on him in a scathing new attack - after the singer said she had never been truly loved by any of her past partners

SHOCKING BETRAYAL: Jennifer Lopez's Ex-Husband Ojani Noa Unleashes Scathing Attack

In a jaw-dropping exposé, Jennifer Lopez's first husband Ojani Noa has come out swinging, accusing the global superstar of cheating on him during their tumultuous marriage. The personal trainer and former husband of J.Lo unleashed his fury in a scathing statement on Instagram, leaving fans stunned by the explosive allegations.

The drama began when Jennifer, 56, made some candid comments about her love life during an interview with Howard Stern on SiriusXM. When asked if she had ever truly been loved, Jennifer responded with a resounding "no," stating that it's not that she's unlovable, but rather her past partners who lack the capacity for genuine affection.

When asked by Howard Stern in a recent interview if she'd ever 'truly been loved', the star, 56, said no, adding: 'What I learned, it's not that I'm not lovable - it's that they're not capable'

Jennifer's comment sparked Ojani's ire, and he quickly fired back with a fiery response on Instagram. The 50-year-old trainer accused J.Lo of cheating on him during their brief marriage from 1997 to 1998, claiming that she was unfaithful due to her own desires and ambitions.

"Stop putting us down," Ojani wrote in his statement. "You're the one who couldn't keep it in your pants. You have been 'loved' a few times. You've had four marriages and countless relationships in between. You've had good relationships, like with me, for example."

Ojani's statement revealed a personal side of their marriage that was previously unknown to the public. He claimed that he moved out of state to support Jennifer, protect her, and care for her during their time together. The trainer insisted that he was a loving partner who never cheated on J.Lo.

Jennifer and Ojani were only married briefly from 1997 to 1998, but personal trainer Ojani appears to have taken great offence to her comments about her love life

"I was good to you," Ojani wrote. "I'm too good of a man for you. You decided to lie, to cheat on me, and even though I stayed, you begged me to keep the marriage intact to avoid bad press. But you went for the fast lane of your career/stardom not caring about me, you wanted to continue cheating and lying."

The gloves were off as Ojani took aim at J.Lo's numerous marriages and high-profile relationships. He accused her of being disloyal and selfish, using her partners for personal gain.

"Tell the truth for once," Ojani demanded in his statement. "You should be embarrassed, ashamed of yourself."

The feud between Jennifer Lopez and her ex-husband Ojani Noa has been brewing for years, with both parties trading barbs in interviews and public statements. In a 2022 interview with The Scholarly Note.com (TSN), Ojani opened up about their marriage, revealing that he felt heartbroken when they split.

"I was the first, the pioneer," Ojani said during the TSN interview. "I was there at the beginning of her career supporting her, dealing with her anxieties and insecurities. I was a really good husband because I believe in marriage."

Ojani's comments were a far cry from Jennifer's recent statements about her love life. During the same SiriusXM interview where she spoke about never being truly loved, J.Lo took aim at her fourth ex-husband Ben Affleck.

"What I learned, it's not that I'm not lovable — it's that they're not capable...They don't have it in them!" Jennifer exclaimed on the show. "And they gave me what they had, right? They gave me all of it, every time - all the rings, all the things I could ever want, right?"

Jennifer also spoke candidly about her divorce from Ben Affleck, calling it the best thing that ever happened to her.

"It really made me journey into...I mean, I had a religious coach, I had a therapist, a couple's therapist, an individual therapist, I had a coach to understand addiction. I had everything," Jennifer confessed on SiriusXM. "I was like, 'I'm gonna fin' figure this s out if it kills me.'"

The drama surrounding Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa is far from over. With both parties trading blows in the public eye, fans can't help but wonder what's next for these two former lovers.

A representative for Jennifer has been contacted by The Scholarly Note.com (TSN) for comment on Ojani's statement, but no response was provided at the time of publication.

Ojani wrote in his post: 'Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card. The problem is not us. Not me...'

Jennifer took a swipe at her fourth ex-husband Ben Affleck (seen together) and, well, every other man she's ever been engaged to or married to in the past in the interview recently