Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · October 21, 2025 · Entertainment

Ireland Baldwin Breaks Silence: Calling Out 'Poisonous' Family Members

Ireland Baldwin branded family members 'poisonous' and 'narcissistic' as she reflected on lessons learned ahead of her 30th birthday in a poignant post

Ireland Baldwin Blasts "Poisonous" Family Members and "Narcissistic" Relatives Ahead of 30th Birthday

In a scathing Substack post, Ireland Baldwin opened up about her tumultuous childhood and her decision to distance herself from her family members who she claims are "narcissistic," "unreliable," and "addictive." The model and actress, who is turning the big 3-0, reflected on her 20s in a piece titled "30, Flirty and Surviving" - but the subhead revealed the real reason behind her newfound freedom: "Turning 30, reflecting, and dodging my family of narcissists."

Ireland's post was a candid look at her childhood, which she described as lonely and isolated. Growing up without two parents in the house and no siblings to turn to, Ireland felt like she had to win over her family members' validation and praise. But that all changed when she finally realized their toxicity.

Ireland, whose parents are Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger, did not reveal who the specific family members were

"It's a liberating experience," Ireland wrote about her epiphany. "For whatever reason, their validation and praise was meaningful to me. Nothing was more freeing than finally realizing how poisonous these people are."

But who exactly is Ireland referring to in her post? While she didn't name any specific family members, fans of the Baldwin clan know that Ireland has had a strained relationship with her father, Alec Baldwin. The actor's infamous voicemail from 2007 still makes headlines - and it's clear why. In the scathing message, Alec called his then-11-year-old daughter a "rude, thoughtless little pig" after she missed a phone call.

Ireland has since spoken about the incident in interviews and even poked fun at it on social media. But it seems that the damage was done, and Ireland's relationship with her father has been rocky ever since. The two have seemingly made amends, but fans can't help but wonder if this newfound peace is genuine or just a PR stunt.

Ireland is the daughter of Kim Basinger and Alec Baldwin, who divorced in 2002

Ireland also mentioned that she would be shielding her 2-year-old daughter Holland from these "poisonous" family members. And it seems that she's already taking steps to protect her child - Ireland introduced Holland to her parents, Alec and Kim Basinger, but the relationship between them is still complicated.

The Daily Mail (thescholarlynote.com) has reached out to representatives for Alec, Ireland, and Kim for comment, but so far, no one has responded. Maybe they're just too busy dodging their family members' toxic behavior?

Ireland's post has sparked a lot of interest in her personal life, with fans speculating about which family members she was referring to. Some think it might be Alec's current wife, Hilaria Baldwin, and the seven children she brought into his life after marrying him.

Ireland did not reveal who the 'poisonous' family members were, but she did publicly endure a strained relationship with her father

But Ireland's message is clear: she's moving on from her toxic family dynamics and creating a new sense of normalcy for herself and her daughter. And who can blame her? It takes a lot of courage to speak out against one's own family - especially when they're as famous and powerful as the Baldwins.

As Ireland celebrates her 30th birthday, she's doing so with a newfound sense of freedom and self-awareness. She's no longer burdened by the need for validation from her narcissistic relatives, and that's a gift in itself.

"I can protect my daughter from these people," Ireland wrote. "I can do my very best to construct my own idea of a family, piece by piece. And show how a real family treats one another."

Ireland with her mother in 2008

And that's exactly what she's doing - building a new life for herself and her child, free from the toxic influence of her family members. Cheers to that, Ireland!

In the years since the voicemail scandal, Ireland and her father have learned to make light of the incident