Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 22, 2025 · Entertainment

Inside Brandon Hatmaker's Confession: Cheating, Pain, and Redemption

HGTV alum Jen Hatmaker (R) made some explosive claims in her upcoming memoir that her ex-husband Brandon Hatmaker (L) cheated on her in 2020 after 26 years of marriage then allegedly abandoned her and their five children during the COVID-19 pandemic

SCANDAL ROCKS HGTV POWER COUPLE: Jen Hatmaker's Explosive Memoir Exposes 26-Year Marriage Secrets

In a bombshell memoir set to hit shelves this Tuesday, former HGTV star and bestselling author Jen Hatmaker dishes on the shocking secrets of her 26-year marriage to ex-husband Brandon Hatmaker. The explosive claims made in "Awake: A Memoir" have left fans stunned, with allegations of infidelity, financial ruin, and a devastating pandemic-era fallout that nearly destroyed their family.

According to sources close to the couple, Jen, 51, makes some stunning revelations about her marriage to Brandon, 53. In the book, she claims that in 2020, after two years of marriage counseling and no intimacy, she overheard Brandon confess his secret affair on a phone call with his mistress, who he had been seeing for an "unbelievable" amount of time.

The 51-year-old author begins her 14th book Awake: A Memoir - hitting shelves this Tuesday - with the moment she overheard the 53-year-old ex-pastor murmur 'I just can't quit you' on the phone to his mistress, whom he'd been with for a 'devastating' amount of time (pictured last Wednesday)

The stunning admission comes as a shock to fans who remember the Hatmakers' idyllic HGTV days, co-starring in hits like "Tiny House" and "Brother vs. Brother." But behind closed doors, sources claim that Brandon's secret life was causing financial chaos for their family, with lavish gifts and expenses running into the thousands.

As Jen recounts her marriage's downward spiral, she paints a picture of a man who had checked out emotionally long before his affair became public knowledge. "We grew into two different people," she writes. "I think we both just needed something that the other couldn't provide."

But Brandon isn't letting Jen have all the spotlight. In a scathing response to her allegations, he penned an 1,800-word essay on Substack, claiming that their marriage was already on life support when he cheated.

Jen admitted they hadn't had sex in the two years leading up to her discovery despite them going to a marriage counselor, and alleged Brandon caused 'financial chaos' in their family due to the secret 'expensive and lavish gifts' he gave his mistress

"The truth is, people in a healthy marriage don't just wake up one day and decide to have an affair," Brandon writes. "Our relationship was coming to a slow and painful ending. I privately mourned the death of our marriage years before our divorce."

Brandon's essay also touches on his subsequent admission to a residential treatment center for trauma, where he spent 31 days undergoing intense counseling, group therapy, and education.

"It was life-altering," he claims. "When I got home, it was a whirlwind. I had gone through three-and-a-half years of therapy crammed into 31 days."

The Hatmakers share three-week-old grandson Weston and five children - son Gavin, 27; daughter Sydney, 25; son Caleb, 23; son Ben, 22; daughter Remy, 19 - two of whom were teenagers at the time of their split (pictured in 2024)

But despite his claims of progress, Jen maintains that her ex-husband made little effort to reconcile or work on their marriage after his infidelity became public.

"I told him 'For me, there is no path back to reconnection,'" she writes. "He didn't try to fix things or make amends. He just disappeared."

In a surprising twist, Brandon reveals that he met a new partner, Tina, in the aftermath of his treatment and married her in 2022.

In response, the Frontera Capital Partners CMO penned a lengthy letter on Substack titled 'We are all bigger than our lowest moment' designed to 'add context' to the breakdown of their marriage

"She wasn't my mistress," he insists. "Jen verifies this in her book. To be blunt, I was suicidal when I met Tina. She made me feel human again."

The Hatmakers' children – Gavin, Sydney, Caleb, Ben, Remy, and now grandson Weston – have been caught up in the drama, with Jen admitting that she carried the emotional burden of their father's infidelity.

"Jen was certainly the sole parent who had to carry them emotionally through the trauma of my affair," Brandon acknowledges. "But I was always available, constantly engaged, and supported them...and still do."

Brandon wrote on Monday: 'To have an affair was extremely new to me and not who I truly am. I had completely lost myself. My anger had turned to resentment, which turned to entitlement. There's no affair story that isn't gross, or secret, or deceptive. Mine was no different' (pictured in 2024)

As the drama continues to unfold, Jen is set to kick off her 15-date Awake Book Tour in Manhattan's Upper West Side this Tuesday. Meanwhile, fans are left wondering what really went down behind closed doors for this once- idyllic HGTV power couple.

In a statement on The Scholarly Note, Jen Hatmaker says: "I'm just trying to share my story and find healing. I want people to know that even in the darkest of times, there is hope."

For his part, Brandon's Substack essay has been met with mixed reactions from fans, some praising his candor while others accuse him of deflecting blame.

Hatmaker admitted himself into the residential treatment center Milestones by Onsite in Cumberland Furnace, TN for trauma after 'causing so much pain' and bringing 'so much humiliation into the lives of people that I loved' (pictured April 2)

As the drama continues to unfold, one thing is clear: this scandal will be making headlines for a long time to come.

The self-described 'work in progress' quickly moved on with a much younger woman called Tina, whom he made his second wife in 2022, but stressed that she was not the mistress (Instagram official in October 2021)

Brandon clarified: 'In no way was Tina involved or a part of my divorce in 2020. Jen verifies this in her book' (pictured July 29)

Meanwhile, the For the Love podcaster is in a long-distance relationship with fellow author Tyler Merritt (L, pictured September 15), whom she calls 'the love of my life'

Jen is next scheduled to bring her 15-date Awake Book Tour to the Barnes & Noble in Manhattan's Upper West Side this Tuesday (pictured last Wednesday)