Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 27, 2025 · Entertainment

Heartbreak at Selena Gomez's Wedding: Mother Shattered as Grandfather Takes Center Stage

Selena Gomez will marry record producer Benny Blanco in front of a reported 300 guests at a secret location in California’s swanky, celebrity-stacked Montecito today

The Bitter Truth Behind Selena Gomez's Wedding Day Heartbreak

In a shocking turn of events, pop sensation Selena Gomez has made the stunning decision to have her grandfather give her away at her upcoming wedding to record producer Benny Blanco. And as you might expect from a celebrity power couple, their big day is set to be an extravagant affair with all the trimmings - but what's really behind this choice that has left fans and insiders alike reeling?

According to sources close to the couple, Gomez had been secretly planning this move for months before confiding in her grandparents. The decision was reportedly made as soon as they began discussing their wedding plans, and it's said to be a deliberate snub of her mother Mandy Teefey.

She will be walked down the aisle by her grandad, according to an insider, who claimed the decision 'shattered' her mother Mandy Teefey (pictured with Gomez in 2012)

But what's behind this heart-wrenching choice? Insiders claim that Gomez has been feeling increasingly distant from her mother due to concerns about her unpredictable behavior. The 33-year-old singer has had to navigate the choppy waters of their complicated relationship for years, and it seems she's finally reached a breaking point.

For those who may not know, Mandy Teefey has had her fair share of ups and downs. Adopted at birth by a working-class family in Grand Prairie, Texas, she struggled with mental health issues from an early age - including trying to take her own life at the tender age of seven. Her relationship with Gomez's father was tumultuous, and the couple eventually split in 1997.

Fast-forward to the present day, and it seems Teefey's erratic behavior has been a major factor in her daughter's decision-making process. Insiders claim that Mandy can sometimes be "a loose cannon," which has led to tension between the two women. This isn't the first time their relationship has been put under scrutiny - back in 2018, Gomez was hospitalized for a "nervous breakdown" without her mother being informed.

'She didn't feel there was any bigger way she could reward and honor her grandfather than to ask him to be such a huge part of her wedding' (pictured with her grandfather last year)

In fact, sources close to the family claim that Teefey found out about her daughter's hospitalization through TMZ, adding fuel to the fire of their strained relationship. It wasn't until 2019 that the pair began to reconnect and rebuild their bond - but it seems this latest development has pushed them further apart.

So why did Gomez choose her grandfather David Cornett over her mother? Insiders claim she wanted to honor her grandad's influence in her life, citing his unwavering support and guidance over the years. It's said that Gomez had a heart-to-heart with her grandparents about her decision, but deliberately kept it from her mother.

"We're still trying to process everything," a source close to Teefey told The Scholarly Note. "We thought for sure she'd choose Mandy to walk her down the aisle - after all, they've been through so much together. But in the end, Selena decided to go with her grandfather instead."

‘Selena’s mother and her stepfather were shattered she didn’t choose her mother to walk her down the aisle,’ said our source (pictured with Mandy and Brian Teefy in 2008)

And what about Benny Blanco? The 37-year-old record producer seems to have won over Gomez's family, at least on the surface. Sources close to the couple claim he's been a pillar of support during their relationship and has helped bring them closer together.

But don't expect Mandy Teefey to be missing from the big day just yet - despite her daughter's decision, she'll still be attending the wedding in California's swanky Montecito. Insiders claim that Teefey will be taking a few weeks to come to terms with this latest development, but is ultimately committed to supporting her daughter on her special day.

As for the wedding itself? Expect an A-list affair like no other. Snoop Dogg has been roped in as host for the afterparty, while Taylor Swift and Gomez's "Only Murders in the Building" costars Martin Short and Steve Martin are set to join the celebrations. The luxurious El Encanto resort will be hosting the proceedings, with guests expected to retire there afterwards for a well-deserved rest.

'She didn’t try to talk Selena out of it,' said the insider. 'She realized this is the way it’s going to be.’

But what really goes on behind closed doors? We can only imagine - but one thing's for sure: this wedding is shaping up to be an unforgettable experience for all involved.

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It's worth noting that Mandy Teefey has been at the center of controversy in recent years. In 2022, she launched a mental health startup called Wondermind with entrepreneur Daniella Pierson - but the platform was forced to lay off 60% of its employees due to financial struggles just months later. Insiders claim that Teefey's erratic behavior and alleged "drug den" office antics contributed to this downfall.

Gomez will celebrate with 300 guests including her best friend Taylor Swift

The drama doesn't stop there, either. Sources close to Gomez have revealed that her mother has been struggling with bipolar disorder and ADHD for years - and it seems this has had a profound impact on their relationship.

As one insider put it: "Mandy's mental health issues have always been a major concern for Selena. She wants to help her mom get the support she needs, but at the same time, she can't let her own life be controlled by her mother's antics."

It's clear that this is more than just a simple celebrity wedding - it's a complex web of family drama and relationships that have been years in the making.