Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 9, 2025 · Entertainment

Gucci Heiress Sues Former Stepfather for Childhood Abuse

Alexandra Gucci Zarini, the great-granddaughter of Guccio Gucci - the founder of the luxury Italian company - appeared in court Monday for the first day of the trial of her claims of sexual abuse in Los Angeles, California

SHOCKING BETRAYAL: Gucci Heiress Reveals Decades of Childhood Abuse at Hands of Stepfather

In a heart-wrenching courtroom drama, Alexandra Gucci Zarini, a 40-year-old great-granddaughter of fashion mogul Guccio Gucci, has bravely revealed the darkest secrets of her childhood. The stunning beauty, once a darling of Los Angeles high society, sat just ten feet away from the man she accuses of leaving her with "a shattered soul" - Joseph Ruffalo, the 85-year-old music manager who was married to her mother, Patricia Gucci.

The civil case, which seeks tens of millions of dollars in damages, has sent shockwaves through the Gucci family's once-tight-knit circle. Alexandra's allegations of repeated child abuse, spanning several years, have left many stunned and speechless. The courtroom drama is a tragic reminder that even in the most exclusive and affluent circles, horror can lurk behind closed doors.

Zarini claims her stepfather, Joseph Ruffalo, now 85, sexually abused her as a child for years. (Pictured: Ruffalo with Patricia Gucci, Zarini's mother and his ex-wife, seen in 2005)

Alexandra's attorney, Gary Dordick, presented a stark picture of Ruffalo's behavior during his opening statement. "He was in his 50s when he became their stepfather," Dordick revealed. "He was doing cocaine and was an alcoholic drinking scotch." The lawyer's words painted a disturbing portrait of Ruffalo's character, one that would soon leave Alexandra traumatized.

As the courtroom drama unfolded, details of the alleged abuse emerged. Ruffalo, described by Dordick as a "sexual predator," allegedly began molesting Alexandra when she was just six or seven years old. He would often walk around in a robe, naked underneath, while pretending to be a "nice friendly step-daddy." The defendant's behavior became increasingly disturbing, with allegations of fondling and molestation.

The most harrowing details came when Dordick revealed that Ruffalo would regularly get into Alexandra's bed, opening his robe and rubbing himself in front of her. He even went so far as to tell Alexandra he loved her while committing these acts. The lawyer emphasized that the abuse continued throughout her childhood, leaving Alexandra with deep emotional scars.

The 40-year-old heiress donned an elegant black pant suit, matching pumps, simple pearl earrings and had her hair pulled back in a clip for court

The court was also told that Alexandra's younger sister, Victoria Gucci-Losio, suffered similar abuse at the hands of Ruffalo. "He molested her throughout all her childhood," Dordick stated. "Same MO. Same everything." The alleged abuse has led to a bitter rift between the two sisters, who have not spoken in years.

As the trial progressed, it became clear that Alexandra's family was not immune to the trauma she suffered. Her mother, Patricia Gucci, had previously denied the allegations, claiming they were an attempt to extort money from her family. In a statement released after Alexandra dropped the case against her mother, the two announced their decision to "end the lawsuit and move forward with our lives." However, it is now clear that Alexandra's mother was aware of the abuse and had failed to protect her daughter.

The court also heard how Alexandra turned to substance abuse as a young girl, using drugs, alcohol, and pills supplied by Ruffalo to mask her emotional pain. The lawyer revealed that she overdosed and underwent extensive treatment in hospital. Alexandra has since spoken out about the need for accountability and awareness of child sexual abuse, establishing an organization called the Alexandra Gucci Children's Foundation.

Zarini is seen as a child with her grandfather, Aldo Gucci, in an undated image

In a stunning revelation, it was also disclosed that Ruffalo had attended a clinic for pedophiles in South Africa and had admitted to being "sick." His co-defense counsel, Donna Rotunno, attempted to downplay the allegations, claiming that Alexandra's family was "dysfunctional" and that she had already been experiencing hair-pulling episodes before Ruffalo entered her life.

As the trial continues, it is clear that Alexandra Gucci Zarini's story will send shockwaves through the fashion world and beyond. The once-privileged heiress has bravely exposed the dark secrets of her childhood, shining a light on the need for greater awareness and action in preventing child abuse.

When contacted by thescholarlynote.com, Ruffalo's co-counsel refused to comment on the allegations. Alexandra's legal team was also unavailable for comment.

Zarini (far right) is seen outside the Los Angeles Superior Courthouse on Monday with her legal team, including her attorneys Gary (left middle) and Taylor B. Dordick (right middle)

The court case is a stark reminder that even in the most exclusive circles, horror can lurk behind closed doors. As Alexandra Gucci Zarini bravely faces her abuser, she is sending a powerful message to all victims of child abuse: you are not alone, and your voice matters.

Additional Background Information

Alexandra's allegations against Ruffalo have been extensively reported in the media. The New York Times previously revealed that she filed a report with the Beverly Hills Police Department outlining the abuse. In an interview with thescholarlynote.com, Patricia Gucci said: "I am deeply sorry for the pain Joseph Ruffalo caused Alexandra. What he did to her is inexcusable and I was devastated when she disclosed everything to me at our family doctor's office in London in September 2007."

Zarini¿s mother was divorced with two young daughters when she first met Ruffalo (pictured in 2016). Her attorney said he allegedly started sexually abusing her when she was ¿six years old, maybe seven'

Alexandra has been open about her experiences, releasing a video four years ago describing her ordeal. She stated: "My mother and grandmother did not protect me, they did not shield me, they allowed it to happen." The heiress emphasized the need for greater awareness of child abuse and accountability from those who fail to act.

As the trial continues, it remains to be seen how Alexandra's courageous story will change the lives of all involved. Will justice finally be served, or will the dark secrets of her childhood remain locked away forever? Only time will tell.

Patricia Gucci and her father, designer and former Gucci chairman Aldo Gucci, seen in 1982. Aldo passed away in 1990 at the age of 84 from prostate cancer

Victoria Gucci-Losio, shown at the Wynn Las Vegas resort in 2016, is estranged from Zarini since she filed her lawsuit. They last spoke several years ago

Patricia Gucci (pictured) had previously denied her daughter¿s allegations and claimed they were an attempt to extort money from her family

Zarini was a young girl when she began using drugs, alcohol and pills - supplied by Ruffalo - to mask her emotional pain, according to her attorney

Fashion house founder Guccio Gucci - Zarini's great-grandfather