Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 29, 2025 · Entertainment

Grandpa Steals the Spotlight: Selena Gomez's Unexpected Wedding Walk

Selena Gomez's mother Mandy Teefy revealed who walked her daughter down the aisle as the actress tied the knot with Benny Blanco during a romantic ceremony on Saturday; Gomez and Teefy seen in 2017 in L.A.

Selena Gomez's Secret Wedding Exposed: Mom Speaks Out on Family Drama, Taylor Swift and Other A-List Celebrities Attend

In a shocking turn of events, Selena Gomez has tied the knot with record producer Benny Blanco in an intimate ceremony surrounded by their closest friends and family. The 33-year-old actress and singer said "I do" to her beau, 37, in a romantic celebration that took place at a luxurious venue in Santa Barbara, California.

But what's more intriguing is the drama that unfolded behind the scenes. According to sources close to the family, Gomez's mother Mandy Teefy was initially devastated when she wasn't asked to walk her daughter down the aisle. In fact, it's reported that Teefy and her husband Brian were "shattered" by the decision, which ultimately went to Selena's grandfather David instead.

Her mother was in attendance for the big day and jumped to Instagram to gush over the newlyweds and shared that Gomez's grandfather David had been asked to walk her down the aisle

Speaking out for the first time since the wedding, Mandy Teefy took to Instagram to share a heartwarming photo of the happy couple, accompanied by a glowing tribute. "What a perfect celebration for the most kick-a** couple I know!" she gushed. "The evening couldn't have been more beautiful and perfect! Absolutely flawless!"

Teefy went on to reveal that her father-in-law David was overwhelmed with emotion when Selena asked him to give her away. "He and his wife Debbie broke down in tears of joy," she wrote, adding a sweet message to the newlyweds: "All my love to my beautiful daughter @selenagomez and to the greatest son-in-law @itsbennyblanco!!!"

This isn't the first time we've seen Selena's family drama play out in public. Back in 2023, the singer opened up about her complicated relationship with her biological father Ricardo Joel. In an interview with Rolling Stone, she revealed that he "didn't want to be a part" of her life as an actress and musician.

Along with sharing a photo of the bride and groom, the star's mother wrote in the caption: 'What a perfect celebration for the most kick a** couple I know!'

"I was really me and my mom's journey," Selena confessed, adding that she had developed a close bond with her maternal grandparents David and Debbie, who she has been living with at times. In fact, her grandmother even shared a sweet message on social media when the couple announced their engagement last year: "Bring on the happy-ever after!" she exclaimed.

But let's get back to the juicy stuff – the wedding itself! The ceremony was attended by around 170 guests, including A-list celebrities Taylor Swift and Only Murders In The Building castmates Martin Short and Steve Martin. Yes, you read that right – these two talented actors even gave speeches at the reception!

According to sources close to the couple, the evening was a night to remember, filled with laughter, tears of joy, and endless love. "There was so much love in the room," one insider shared with People. "The wedding ceremony itself moved guests to tears – they wrote their own vows, which were both funny and sentimental."

'I live with my grandparents, so we are always in the kitchen, always cooking, and we have leftovers,' Gomez said back in 2023

And what about the happy couple's outfits? Selena stunned in a custom Ralph Lauren gown for the ceremony, while Benny donned a classic black tuxedo. But it was during the reception when things got really interesting – the actress changed into a different ensemble designed by Ralph Lauren, while her groom wore a dashing white dress shirt and black bowtie.

Other celebrities who scored an invite to the nuptials include Eric Andre, Paris Hilton, Cara Delevingne, Ed Sheeran, and SZA. And speaking of Taylor Swift – sources close to the singer revealed that she gave a sweet speech to her close pal during the reception. But we won't spill the beans just yet...

As for Selena's post-wedding celebrations, it looks like the couple is off to a flying start! We can't wait to see what the future holds for these two lovebirds – stay tuned for more updates on their fairytale romance.

Earlier this month, a source told the Daily Mail that Gomez's mother had been left 'shattered' at first when she was not asked to walk her daughter down the aisle - with the role offered to her grandfather David instead; Gomez and mom seen in 2012 in West Hollywood

TheScholarlyNote.com Exclusive:

We have learned that Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's wedding was an intimate celebration of love, with around 170 guests in attendance. But what caught our attention was the drama surrounding the family – specifically, Selena's mother Mandy Teefy being left "shattered" when she wasn't asked to walk her daughter down the aisle.

We also couldn't help but notice that Taylor Swift and other A-list celebrities played a significant role in the wedding celebrations. And let's not forget about the stunning outfits worn by the happy couple – Selena shone in two different Ralph Lauren gowns, while Benny looked dashing in his classic black tuxedo.

'Selena's mother and her stepfather Brian were shattered she didn't choose her mother to walk her down the aisle,' the insider said; Gomez seen with mom Mandy and stepdad Brian in 2008

As for what's next for these two lovebirds? Only time will tell, but one thing is certain – their fairytale romance has only just begun!

Photos:

  • Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco share a romantic kiss outside the venue
  • Mandy Teefy gushes over her daughter and son-in-law on Instagram
  • The happy couple pose with friends and family at the reception

Gomez gave a glimpse at the evening by sharing a series of romantic snaps to her Instagram page on Saturday

And on Sunday, Blanco shared more pictures which appeared to have been taken after the lovebirds said 'I do'

The wedding ceremony itself 'moved guests to tears. They wrote their own vows, which were both funny and sentimental'

Taylor Swift also gave a sweet speech to her close pal while Mark Ronson was the DJ for the reception