Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 20, 2025 · Entertainment

From Anxious to Astounding: Kate's Royal Transformation

Kate's confident demeanour looked world's away from the mild-mannered display she put on as the Duchess of Cambridge at her first of these occasions, over a decade ago (pictured)

Kate Middleton Steals the Spotlight: From Awkward State Banquet Debut to Captivating Trump

In a stunning display of poise and charm, Kate Middleton, the Princess of Wales, has effortlessly transformed herself from an "anxious-looking guest" at her first state banquet in 2015 to a captivating presence that left Donald Trump and his wife Melania utterly enchanted. The 43-year-old royal, who was strategically placed at Trump's right-hand side during the lavish Windsor Castle reception on Wednesday night, was described as "radiant" and "dazzling" by body language expert Judi James.

It's a far cry from Kate's initial state banquet appearance in 2015, where she wore a simple red dress and her hair was styled in a neat up-do. Back then, Judi noted that Kate looked like an "anxious guest who lacked confidence." However, as the years went by, Kate has blossomed into her most authentic and confident self.

Donald Trump 's second state visit to the UK was unprecedented for a number of reasons - including the Princess of Wales's diplomatic triumphs as she stepped confidently into the role of Britain's future Queen

Her impressive performance at Wednesday's state banquet was nothing short of remarkable. Kate donned a stunning golden gown and paired it with the beloved Cambridge Lover's Knot tiara, which was a wedding gift to Princess Diana. As she clinked glasses with Trump and engaged in conversation, it was clear that she had captured his attention.

But what really caught our attention was the chemistry between Kate and Melania. Despite initial reports suggesting a frosty relationship between the two women, Judi observed that Kate's "high-energy, enthusiastic approach" to Melania was unmistakable. She noted that Kate seemed to have effortlessly broken down barriers to create an authentic bond with the First Lady.

According to Christopher Ruddy, CEO of Newsmax Media and a close friend of Trump, the President spent most of the night speaking with Kate, who was "very deep in discussion" with him. Ruddy added that he could tell Trump was "really fascinated" by Kate and was "really engaged" with her.

Prince William 's wife, 43, was deployed by the King on Wednesday night to charm US President Donald Trump and his wife First Lady Melania Trump in an act of expert soft diplomacy

The chemistry between Kate and Trump was undeniable. In his speech addressing attendees at Wednesday's banquet, Trump couldn't help but gush about Kate's beauty. He said: "Melania and I are delighted to visit again with Prince William and to see Her Royal Highness, Princess Catherine, so radiant and so healthy and so beautiful."

It's clear that Kate has become an invaluable asset to the Royal Family and the country. A palace insider told The Scholarly Note: "The King can see what an asset Kate is to the Royal Family and the country. The Trumps are both captivated by her."

As we reflect on Kate's journey from a nervous state banquet debutant in 2015 to a captivating presence that left Trump and Melania in awe, it's clear that she has truly found her footing within the royal fold.

Kate was strategically placed at Mr Trump's right-hand side at the lavish Windsor Castle state banquet, laughing and clinking glasses with him and repeatedly bestowing dazzling smiles upon him during the meal

A Timeline of Kate's State Banquet Evolution

  • 2015: Kate's first state banquet appearance, where she wore a simple red dress and looked "anxious" and "lacking confidence."
  • 2017: Kate donned the Cambridge Lover's Knot tiara for her second state banquet, which marked Prince Harry's participation in a State Visit.
  • 2018: Kate appeared more relaxed at her third state banquet for King Willem-Alexander and Queen Maxima of the Netherlands.
  • 2019: Kate continued to blossom as she smiled graciously while clinking champagne glasses with President Cyril Ramaphosa of South Africa during the banquet's toast.
  • 2022: Following the late Queen Elizabeth's death, Kate played a prominent role at her first state engagement in three years and was described as "a vision in white" as she raised her glass to Buckingham Palace's VIP guest.
  • 2023: Kate experimented with a new look, letting her long locks fall loose for the banquet honouring Korean President Yoon Suk Yeol and his wife Kim Keon Hee.

It's clear that Kate has come a long way since her initial state banquet appearance in 2015. With each subsequent event, she has effortlessly demonstrated her growing confidence and poise, captivating world leaders and their spouses alike. As we continue to follow Kate's journey as the Princess of Wales, one thing is certain: she will undoubtedly remain an invaluable asset to the Royal Family and a source of fascination for us all.

The then-Duchess of Cambridge attended her second state banquet in 2017, appearing to look around the room anxiously

The Trumps' Take on Kate

In a rare display of affection, William was seen placing his hand on his wife's lower back during Wednesday's welcome reception. According to Judi James, Kate reciprocated the sweet gesture by placing her hand on her husband's back before holding his hand. It was clear that the couple were enjoying themselves as they welcomed Trump and Melania to Windsor Castle.

But what really caught our attention was the chemistry between Kate and Melania. Despite initial reports suggesting a frosty relationship between the two women, Judi observed that Kate's "high-energy, enthusiastic approach" to Melania was unmistakable. She noted that Kate seemed to have effortlessly broken down barriers to create an authentic bond with the First Lady.

Kate appeared more relaxed at her third banquet for King Willem-Alexander and Queen Maxima of the Netherlands in 2018 (pictured) and during Trump's first official UK visit in 2019

As we reflect on the Trumps' state visit and their interactions with Kate, it's clear that they were both captivated by her charm and charisma. In his speech addressing attendees at Wednesday's banquet, Trump couldn't help but gush about Kate's beauty. He said: "Melania and I are delighted to visit again with Prince William and to see Her Royal Highness, Princess Catherine, so radiant and so healthy and so beautiful."

It's clear that Kate has become an invaluable asset to the Royal Family and the country. A palace insider told The Scholarly Note: "The King can see what an asset Kate is to the Royal Family and the country. The Trumps are both captivated by her."

By 2022, she was a seasoned state banquet pro, smiling as she clinked champagne glasses with President Cyril Ramaphosa of South Africa during the banquet's toast

In 2023, at a dinner honouring Korean President Yoon Suk Yeol, Kate let her hair down. She chose to let her long locks fall loose rather than pin them up like she had at each previous state banquet

Kate has donned a similar hairdo at each subsequent banquet (Pictured with the Prince of Wales in July, 2025 at a state banquet at Windsor Castle)