Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 1, 2025 · Entertainment

Ethan Hawke Calls Public Divorce from Uma Thurman 'Humiliating': Rare Insights Revealed

Ethan Hawke has opened up about his 'humiliating' public divorce from Uma Thurman in 2003

BOMBSHELL! Ethan Hawke Reveals The Humiliating Details of His High-Profile Divorce from Uma Thurman

In a candid interview with GQ, Hollywood heartthrob Ethan Hawke, 54, opened up about the very public and painful divorce from his ex-wife Uma Thurman in 2005. The stunning revelation comes nearly two decades after their messy split, which left fans reeling and sparked rumors of infidelity.

The former power couple met on the set of Gattaca in 1996 and tied the knot three years later. They welcomed two beautiful children together: Maya, now 27, and Levon, 23. However, their seemingly perfect life took a drastic turn when Hawke was accused of cheating with their nanny, Ryan Shawhughes.

The former Hollywood power couple tied the knot in 1998 after meeting on set of the sci-fi film Gattaca in 1996 (pictured). However, the pair's relationship fell apart in 2003

Hawke has long been tight-lipped about the scandal, but in his latest interview, he candidly admitted that the media coverage surrounding their divorce was "humiliating." When asked about the experience, he said: "It's humiliating. It's almost humiliating even when they're saying positive things."

But it seems Hawke is finally ready to put the drama behind him and focus on his current life as a father of four. The Black Phone star shares two daughters with Shawhughes, Clementine, 17, and Indiana, 14, in addition to his children with Thurman.

When discussing how actors often fall in love on set, Hawke got romantic: "Have you ever played Spin the Bottle?" he asked wistfully. "There's a certain intimacy to the work that we do. Imaginative intimacy. It's such a high. It feels dangerous and thrilling. It turns the temperature up in your life."

He had been accused of cheating on Uma with their children's nanny Ryan Shawhughes. The Training Day actor denied the affair. They married in 2008 and went on to welcome two daughters (pictured last month)

However, his romance with Thurman ultimately ended in heartbreak, with Hawke admitting that their relationship was "impermanent." He revealed: "When you first have kids, you don't realise how impermanent it is. I'm trying to not miss anything."

In a shocking twist, the Oscar-nominated actor confessed that he had come from a parent-teacher conference at his daughters' school before speaking with GQ. Hawke mused: "It's funny, when you're in this business, people always ask you about your love life, but no one ever asks you about your family or how you balance work and parenting."

Thurman, 55, has previously spoken out about the devastating impact of their divorce on her mental health. In a heart-wrenching interview with Oprah Winfrey in 2005, she revealed that the split left her feeling "pretty mangled" and admitted to struggling with self-esteem issues.

Making rare comments about their split, Hawke, 54, told GQ media coverage of the pair's split was embarrassing for him. He said: 'It’s humiliating. It’s almost humiliating even when they’re saying positive things'

When asked about the rumors of infidelity, Thurman diplomatically stated: "There was some betrayal between us." However, it's worth noting that Hawke has consistently denied cheating on his ex-wife.

In a bombshell revelation in 2018, Hawke confessed that he was forced to take on commercial roles to pay off his massive alimony payments to Thurman. The Before trilogy star recalled: "My personal life fell apart. I got divorced and my career went into free fall."

Hawke's candid confession raises questions about the harsh realities of Hollywood marriages and the financial pressures that come with them. He admitted: "I'm 47 years old, and I pay my alimony with my acting. I pay my kids' health insurance with my acting. I help various charities with my acting."

He continued: 'There's a certain intimacy to the work that we do. Imaginative intimacy. It's such a high. It feels dangerous and thrilling. It turns the temperature up in your life'

In a final twist, Hawke revealed his disdain for the notion of being a "professional" in Hollywood, saying: "I kind of hate professionals." It seems the actor is finally ready to put the drama behind him and focus on what truly matters – his family and his craft.

This explosive exposé offers a rare glimpse into the tumultuous lives of Hollywood's elite and raises important questions about the harsh realities of fame and relationships in Tinseltown.

The four-time Oscar nominee shares children Maya, 27, and Levon, 23, with Uma, 55. They have gone on to follow in their parents' footsteps by pursuing acting careers (pictured in 2013)