Emma Heming Defends Care Choices for Dementia-Stricken Bruce Willis

EXCLUSIVE: Emma Heming's Powerful Defense of Her Decision to Move Bruce Willis Out of Their Family Home

In a candid and emotional interview with Good Morning America, Emma Heming, the wife of Hollywood legend Bruce Willis, has spoken out against criticism over her decision to move her husband out of their family home as he battles frontotemporal dementia. The actress, 47, made it clear that she stands by her choice, which she believes is in the best interest of her husband and their two young daughters, Mabel, 13, and Evelyn, 11.

A Difficult Decision

Heming acknowledged the judgment she has faced online but remained firm in her stance. "I know it's not up for debate," she said, "but I'm willing to explain why this decision was made." She explained that moving Willis into a second home with a full-time care team ensures his needs are met around the clock while also protecting their daughters' wellbeing.

"It's about providing a safe and loving environment for Bruce and our children," Heming emphasized. "We're not just talking about him, we're talking about two young girls who need to feel secure and loved."

The Reality of Caring for Someone with FTD

Heming reflected on the challenges of caring for someone with frontotemporal dementia, which affects language and personality, causing gradual cognitive decline. "Dementia plays out differently in every household," she said. "You can't compare one person's experience to another."

The author also spoke about the stigma surrounding caregiving, saying, "Caregivers are so judged. They're not given permission to take care of themselves." Heming hopes her book, The Unexpected Journey, will change this perception and give caregivers permission to prioritize their own well-being.

A Personal Story

Heming revealed that she was initially unaware of the severity of her husband's condition when he was diagnosed with FTD in 2023. "I remember hearing it and just not hearing anything else," she said, describing the moment as like being in a freefall. Heming also shared that the family has had to adapt their communication methods as Willis loses his ability to speak.

"We have found ways to connect with him, even though he can't talk," she said. "It's about showing up and being present for each other." Heming also talked about the subtle signs of dementia her husband exhibited before his diagnosis, including becoming quieter and losing words.

A Family Affair

Heming's daughters frequently visit their father at his new home, where they have a special way of communicating with him. "We watch movies together, and we're just there to be present," she said. Heming also shared that Willis' friends continue to show up for him, bringing life and fun into the home.

A Message to Caregivers

In closing, Heming had a powerful message for caregivers everywhere: "It's okay to ask for help. It's okay to prioritize yourself." She hopes her book will give caregivers permission to do just that, saying, "If they don't take care of themselves, how will they be able to show up and continue to care for the person they love?"

As The Sixth Sense star continues his journey with frontotemporal dementia, Emma Heming's unwavering dedication to her husband and family is a testament to the power of love and resilience.