Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · September 16, 2025 · Entertainment

Ed Sheeran Reveals Marital Realities: 'Real Conflict' in Love Songs

Ed Sheeran gave a very rare insight into life with wife Cherry Seaborn as he opened up about 'real conflict' in their marriage at a surprise fan event in London on Tuesday

ED SHEERAN SPILLS THE TEA ON MARRIAGE, MUSIC, AND HIS NEW YORK LIFE

In a shocking move, global superstar Ed Sheeran has broken his silence on the ups and downs of marriage, revealing that he's not just singing about love and happiness in his music. The 34-year-old singer-songwriter, who tied the knot with his long-term partner Cherry Seaborn in 2019, shared some juicy details about their relationship at a surprise fan event in London.

FROM LOVE TO CONFLICT: ED GETS REAL ABOUT MARRIAGE

Ed surprised fans in London with an unexpected street performance as part of the special Spotify fan event followed by a Q&A

Ed stunned fans and music enthusiasts alike when he revealed that his marriage to Cherry has its fair share of "real conflict." The singer-songwriter, known for his hit songs like "Perfect," confessed that he doesn't just write about the good stuff. In fact, Ed shared that he's written songs about the not-so-rosy aspects of their relationship as well.

"Cherry knows I write about everything - not just the good stuff," Ed said during the Q&A session at Spotify's immersive Lightroom space in London. "Songs like 'Perfect' exist, but so do the ones about real conflict. That's part of any relationship, and I think it's important to be honest about it."

A CHANGE OF PACE: ED TALKS ABOUT FINDING BALANCE IN LIFE

The singer, 34, married his long-term partner, 33, in 2019 and the pair share two children (seen in 2022)

The pop sensation has been open about his hectic schedule and how it affected his personal life in the past. However, Ed revealed that he's made a conscious effort to find balance between work and family life.

"In my early career, it was 100 per cent work, 0 per cent personal life," Ed shared. "Now it's 70 per cent family, 30 per cent music. Balance isn't just healthy - it's success." The singer-songwriter emphasized the importance of prioritizing his loved ones and making time for them.

A SONG FOR HIS WIFE: ED GETS CREATIVE

Stepping out in Kings Cross, Ed treated fans and unsuspecting passersby to an impromptu performance of Camera from his new album Play

Ed surprised fans by sharing that he's written a song specifically for his wife, Cherry. Inspired by Bono's story about missing his wife's birthday and writing her a song, Ed said he wanted to do the same for his partner.

"It's a personal moment that exists only for her," Ed shared, leaving fans wondering what the song might be like.

THE NEW YORK ADVENTURE: ED SETS THE RECORD STRAIGHT

The performance was preceded by an immersive listening event for Play at London's immersive Lightroom space

The news of Ed and his family moving to New York City has been making headlines lately. However, the singer-songwriter took to social media to clarify that he's not actually relocating permanently.

"I'm going on tour with my family and relocating to the continent I'm touring on," Ed wrote on Instagram. "I don't wanna commute from London to San Diego obvz." The singer also addressed speculation about his tax situation, assuring fans that he'll always pay taxes in the UK, where he lives.

ED'S NEW YORK LIFE: A £9 MILLION HOME AND A FAMOUS FUTURE

He said of how the ups and downs of marriage inspired songs about love and conflict: 'Cherry knows I write about everything - not just the good stuff. Songs like 'Perfect' exist, but so do the ones about real conflict'

Ed's purchase of a £9 million home in New York City has sparked rumors about him leaving the UK for good. However, it seems like the singer-songwriter is just trying to find a better work-life balance.

The news comes after Ed revealed that he'd be relocating to America for his tour. In an interview on the 2 Johnnies podcast, Ed said, "I'm going on tour there for a while and I have a family so I can't dip in and out. We're going and settling there." It seems like Ed's got big plans for his music career in the States.

In conclusion, it looks like Ed Sheeran is finally opening up about his personal life, marriage, and future plans. With two adorable daughters, Lyra and Jupiter, by his side, it's clear that family is a top priority for the singer-songwriter.

He also reflected on how he is now more family and friends focused rather than all about just work

He delved into some personal topics in the chat

Ed said: 'In my early career, it was 100 per cent work, 0 per cent personal life. Now it's 70 per cent family, 30 per cent music. Balance isn't just healthy - it's success'