Joshua Goldman
Joshua Goldman
min read · August 4, 2025 · Entertainment

Duchess Difficult: Meghan Markle's Battle with Bullying Allegations

Meghan Markle has dismissed bullying claims as 'smears' and was said to be 'angry' about being called 'Duchess Difficult'

Meghan Markle's Reign of Terror: Palace Insiders Reveal Duchess's Despotic Behavior

The drama surrounding Meghan Markle, the Duchess of Sussex, continues to unfold like a Shakespearean tragedy. Behind the scenes of the royal family, palace insiders have been speaking out about the alleged bullying and mistreatment they suffered at the hands of Meghan during her time as a working royal.

A damning report by veteran royal correspondent Valentine Low has revealed that Meghan's behavior was so unbearable that it drove multiple staff members to tears and even led to their departure from the palace. The report, published on The Scholarly Note, claims that Meghan would often send "demanding" and "angry" emails to her staff as early as 5am, complete with emojis.

Meghan and Harry have gained a reputation for being tough bosses with one commentator claiming the turnover of staff in the US shows they remain 'difficult'

But that's not all - sources close to the palace have described Meghan as a "dictator in high heels," who would "bark orders" and belittle her employees. The allegations of bullying have been circulating for years, but it wasn't until Low's report was published that the true extent of Meghan's behavior became clear.

The Duchess, who celebrated her 44th birthday today, has always denied the allegations of bullying, describing them as an "orchestrated smear campaign" against her. However, palace insiders paint a different picture, describing Meghan as "manipulative" and "controlling."

Jason Knauf, a former member of Harry's team who worked closely with Meghan, has been one of the most vocal critics of her behavior. In a recent interview, he described how Meghan would "target" staff members, making them feel like they were walking on eggshells around her.

One explanation by supporters of Meghan was that the early emails to London staff was because she got up early to speak to her mother in California due to the time difference

"I am very concerned that the Duchess was able to bully two PAs out of the household in the past year," Knauf wrote in an internal email leaked to The Scholarly Note. "The treatment of X was totally unacceptable... The Duchess seems intent on always having someone in her sights."

Knauf's allegations have been backed up by multiple sources, who claim that Meghan would often undermine their confidence and create a toxic work environment. One former staffer described how Meghan would make them feel like they were "personal servants" rather than employees.

The allegations of bullying come as no surprise to those who follow the royal family closely. The Duchess has always been known for her strong personality and high expectations, but it seems that this has sometimes crossed a line into outright abuse.

Low's report claims that Meghan's behavior was so bad that it drove multiple staff members to tears and even led to their departure from the palace. And it gets worse - since leaving the UK and moving to California with Harry, the couple has lost 25 staff members, including two senior PR executives.

"It's not just about the people who left," Low said in an interview on The Scholarly Note. "It's also about the ones who stayed behind, who are still dealing with the trauma of what happened."

The Palace's Response

A spokesman for the Duke and Duchess of Sussex responded to the allegations, accusing Valentine Low of "recycling false, offensive, and long-discredited allegations" and spreading "harmful gossip." The statement claims that Meghan has faced years of "unfounded attacks" as part of a "never-ending smear campaign."

However, palace insiders are not buying it. They claim that the couple's attempts to discredit Low and others who have spoken out about their behavior only serve to further damage their reputation.

"It's a classic case of gaslighting," one insider said. "They try to make you doubt your own sanity, but in reality, they're just trying to cover up their own mistakes."

As the drama surrounding Meghan Markle continues to unfold, one thing is clear - the Duchess of Sussex has a lot to answer for. Will she ever face accountability for her actions, or will she continue to reign supreme with an iron fist? Only time will tell.

Timeline of Events

  • 2018: Jason Knauf sends internal email alleging that Meghan Markle bullied two PAs out of the household.
  • 2021: Low publishes report alleging that Meghan Markle bullied staff members during her time as a working royal.
  • 2022: The Palace responds to allegations, accusing Valentine Low of "recycling false, offensive, and long-discredited allegations."
  • 2023: Jason Knauf speaks out about his experiences working with the Duke and Duchess of Sussex in an interview on The Scholarly Note.

Sources

  • Valentine Low's report, published on The Scholarly Note
  • Interview with Jason Knauf on The Scholarly Note
  • Palace insiders
  • Former staff members